Where Do People Masturbate Most? 9 Things To Know About Masturbation, Because May Is National Masturbation Month And It's Time To Celebrate

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Masturbation is safest sex you can have. You don’t have to worry about condoms, STIs, awkward sexual mishaps, and you’re always guaranteed to have an orgasm. There's no denying the fact that the health benefits of masturbation, which are both physical and mental, including increased self-esteem, reduced stress, and it even aids in relieving those awful cramps you get during your period. It’s those who know how to satisfy themselves who have an overall sense of well being, a positive body image, and because they know their body and what makes them happy, they have some of the best sex lives out there. Basically, you want to masturbate and want to do it a lot.

Sex toy company, We-Vibe, has just released their first annual We-Vibe Masturbation Report. The report researched men and women across the United States, ages 20 to 70, of all relationship statuses, to see just how people feel about masturbation, who’s doing it, how often, where, and of course, what they’re using to get themselves off. Of the 600 respondents, the overall consensus is that masturbation definitely isn’t as taboo as it used to be. Finally, people are catching on to just how important it is and just how fun it is, too.

Here are nine things to know about masturbation in honor of National Masturbation Month, thanks to We-Vibe’s report.

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1. People Are Talking About Masturbation More Than Ever

Eighty-five percent of the respondents said they were comfortable more than ever before to talk about masturbation thanks to things like TV and movies that are making the subject less taboo. In fact, 69 percent have talked about masturbation with their friends, and 32 percent had done so a lot; 63 percent had only discussed it a few times.

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At 34 percent versus 29 percent, men are still more comfortable than women when it comes to talking about masturbation.

2. Millennials Are The Most Comfortable With The Masturbation Topic

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Although this shouldn’t be totally surprising, it’s nice to know that Millennials are far more open to masturbation than generations past with 85 percent having talked about it with their friends. Only 65 percent of those of the Gen-X age group (that group right before the Millennials) had indulged in masturbation chatter with their buddies.

3. Most People Start Masturbating In Their Teens

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According to the research, 45 percent had started touching themselves for the first time between ages 13 to 19. Ah, to be young and discover the power of your clitoris for the first time!

However, 20 percent of women said they didn’t start exploring that part of their bodies until they were in the 20s... all those lost years of orgasms.

4. The Majority Of People Masturbate When They're Horny

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Although 38 percent masturbate to reduce any stress or anxiety they might be feeling, and 26 percent do so out of the boredom, at 87 percent, most masturbate when they’re feeling, well, sexy.

But no matter the reason for masturbating, 76 percent felt satisfied after doing so, 59 percent felt less stressed, and, one to five percent, a very minimal amount, felt shame or lonely because of it.

5. People Are Masturbating In Their Car

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While 80 percent prefer their bedroom for their self-love moments, 20 percent of men and 19 percent of women admitted to having masturbated in their car at some point. And, interestingly enough, of those masturbating in their car, 35 percent were from the Midwest.

As for the rest of the country, eight percent of the East Coast respondents masturbate in the kitchen (because food, obviously), 25 percent of Southerners prefer the shower, and back to those Midwesterners, 41 percent masturbate in the bathroom... because easy clean up? On the West Coast, the couch is a happening masturbation spot for 19 percent.

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6. People Masturbate More In The Winter

According to the survey, 82 percent of the respondents said they masturbate more in the winter months than any other time of the year. Also, at 51 percent, most people prefer to do it at night.

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7. Half Of Women Use A Vibrator To Get Off

Not only do 55 percent of women masturbate at least once a week or more, but 50 percent of them use vibrators to do so. Half the women also reported to being able to climax easier during masturbation than with a partner, because of course.

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8. Most People Don’t Watch Porn During Masturbation

While porn makes for a great aid when masturbating, more than half (53 percent) prefer their own imagination when getting themselves off. But of those who did report to having watched porn while jerking off, 81 percent were male, because you know how much guys just looove that visual stimulation.

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In addition, 20 percent listen to music while masturbating, although there’s no say on what type of music. Although I'm willing to bet there's some Marvin Gaye action in there somewhere.

9. Women Are Just As Likely To Masturbate When They’re In A Relationship

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To further prove that masturbation is absolutely NOT something that only “lonely” women do, the report found that three in four women were just as likely to masturbate when they were in a relationship than if they were single. Also, 59 percent said their masturbation habits didn’t change whether they were in a relationship or not.

Takeaway? You should be reaching for your vibrator right about now.

Images: Giphy(9); We-Vibe

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