Kristine Fellizar

Kristine’s Latest Articles

How To Climax At The Same Time

There's nothing more magical than being so super connected to your partner that you happen to orgasm at the same time during sex. You both came! Which is great considering that the orgasm gap is unfortunately alive and well. Although Cosmopolitan says simultaneous orgasms are like the "Bigfoot of sex moves," a new Lovehoney survey found that more people have experienced it than you probably think. Online sex toy retailer, Lovehoney recently conducted a survey of 4,400 adults living in the U.K.…

By Kristine Fellizar

The Reason Hotel Sex Is 10x Better

If you've ever thought that having sex in a hotel room is better than doing it at home, you're definitely not alone. From my experience, you can pretty much do the same exact positions and complete the same exact sex routine you like to do from the comfort of a more familiar bed, but for some reason, it's *not* the same. Interestingly enough, there is science behind why sex is better at a hotel than at home. "Sex in a hotel and even on vacation is in fact described by clients as much better mos…

By Kristine Fellizar

How Stella Is Affecting Your Online Dating RN

Spring is less than a week away, but it seems like mother nature wants you to remember that winter is still not over, because winter storm Stella is currently hitting the northeastern part of the country, bringing snow, sleet, and freezing rain to those living in major cities such as New York, Washington D.C., and Boston. If you happen to be young, single and home from work for the day, what do you do when weather conditions are less than ideal? If you're thinking, go on a dating app, duh, then …

By Kristine Fellizar

How Watching Adult Films Affects Your Sex Life

You probably don't think too much on your porn viewing habits. I know I don't. But whether you truly enjoy watching porn or just use it as a means to an end, new research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found there are three specific types of porn users out there. Most importantly, the type of porn user you are can say a lot about your sex life. Researchers from the Université Laval in Quebec wanted to see how porn use affected the sex lives of people who had similar porn using habi…

By Kristine Fellizar

Does This Mean You're Settling?

If you could describe your relationship in one word, what would it be? In the early stages of a relationship, you're probably more likely to use adjectives like "fun", "sexy", or "exciting". In the worst case scenarios, it's probably "dramatic". But the happiest couples will describe their relationship in a similar way. In a study of 200 couples, most happy couples would describe their relationship as "comfortable". After covering love and relationships for years, Ellen McCarthy, a Washington P…

By Kristine Fellizar

The Easy Way To Gain Confidence In Bed

One of the sexiest traits anyone can have is confidence. When you're confident during sex, it can make the whole experience a hell of a lot better than it already is. But for most people, confidence isn't something that you get overnight. Knowing how to gain sexual confidence in the bedroom isn't easy. "Self-confidence is connected to so many things especially when it comes to our sexuality and how we behave," sexologist, Michelle Hope, M.A. tells Bustle. "Sexuality in the context of human beha…

By Kristine Fellizar

How Your Sex Life Affects Your Career

Per-Erik Muskos, a Swedish politician, recently made headlines after advocating for one-hour paid employee sex breaks. He made the argument that couples today don't have enough time to spend together. While studies found having more sex can increase relationship satisfaction, as it turns out there's an added bonus — it may also lead to a better career. According to new research published in the Journal of Management, having sex can improve your performance and satisfaction at work. Researchers …

By Kristine Fellizar

This Is How Women Are Watching Adult Films Today

In case anyone out there had any doubts, women do watch porn. In fact, many love watching it on the regular and the number of women who admit to watching porn continue to rise each year. So in honor of International Women's Day, Pornhub put together a list of insights on how women are watching porn. It might surprise you to know that we're significantly watching more of it on one particular device than men are. According to Pornhub's 2016 Year in Review, it was found that women make up over a f…

By Kristine Fellizar

How To Tell If You're Growing Apart

Ideally, you and your partner should be growing together as the relationship moves further along. But as much as it sucks to say, that's not always the case. Instead of growing together, you find that you and your partner might actually be growing apart. "In my practice, I decode the phrase 'drifting apart' as code for, 'We are not being as reactively nice, loving, and giving.' Instead, they're being reactively nasty, irritated, and withholding," Evie Shafner, Los Angeles-based Licensed Marriag…

By Kristine Fellizar

7 Things That *Don't* Mean You Want To Break Up

When my friend's relationship transitioned from the honeymoon phase into long-term reality, she noticed that her boyfriend started doing something he hadn't done since they became an official thing—making weekend plans without her. I know, not a big deal, right? But when you've gotten into a routine with someone you love, a change in behavior can feel like a huge deal. So like anyone in this situation, she tried looking for the warning signs of a breakup. It turns out, he is just as happy and in…

By Kristine Fellizar