Aly Walansky

We'd all love to be our best, most confident selves — in bed and out. But the truth is that everyone has their baggage and hangups. Some of us are insecure because of prior scenarios in relationships, or simply due to being in untried waters. If you…

If you're in a new destination, you may want to tour the local food and wine spots. I'm with you. There's nothing like a great vineyard or cheese expedition. But if you want to have an unforgettable experience when you're on vacation, there are some…

If you're planning a relaxing getaway, your favorite form of stress relief (and pleasure) may be coming along for the ride. But there's a lot you need to keep in mind before traveling with your sex toys. We all have a right to pleasure. And if you…

When I was in middle school, I’d often watch General Hospital with my mom and grandma. While I was by no means watching porn, the sex on TV was portrayed as explosive. Gorgeous bodies, gleaming with sweat, clinging together, moaning in intense…

What is your sex location fantasy? Is it the backseat of a car? Maybe an airplane bathroom? The back room of a bar with the hot guy or woman in a band? The beach? "We all love our rom-coms that depict those hot steamy passionate sex scenes we all…

Between Lifetime, Disney, and fairytales, we've been conditioned to believe that finding our soulmate is the end game for anyone seeking happiness and love — that there's this perfect person out there for just waiting for us. But the reality may be…

When people talk about sex and foreplay, there are usually things that some of us enjoy and others don't. Some people may love it a little rough, while others want slow and romantic. Some may have very sensitive nipples, while others may prefer…

We have to accept responsibility that sometimes we can make improvements in the sack. That goes for all of us, of all experience levels, with all our partners. But that doesn't mean our partners are perfect either. While they can learn from our…

Many of us want to have better sex, and while we'd love to push that responsibility onto our partner, a lot of the ball (so to speak!) remains in our court. Vocalizing your pleasure during sex is a seductive (and easy) way to improve your skills in…