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Kristine Fellizar

Bio
Kristine is a Los Angeles-based lifestyle writer at Bustle, where she covers all things related to dating, relationships, health, wellness, and astrology. Her work has also appeared in HelloGiggles, FabFitFun, The Date Mix, AwesomenessTV, and Brit.Co, among others. She earned her bachelor’s degree in political science from the University of California, Irvine. When she isn’t writing, she’s either finding new places to fuel her coffee addiction, nerding out over anything Marvel, or exploring Disneyland for the millionth time.

13 Halloween-Themed Date Ideas To Bring You Closer Together

If you want to do something different on your next date night, try going for a spooky vibe. According to experts, spooky date nights are not only unique, but they can also boost your attraction and create intimacy between you and your partner. In…
By Kristine Fellizar

The Real Reason Scary Movies Lead To Nightmares, According To Experts

Horror movies affect everyone differently. Some people can sit through an entire marathon and it's no big deal, while others will be left with some very real feelings of fear and distress. While horror movies are made to scare you, there should be…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Interesting Signs Someone Is Also Attracted To You, According To Experts

When you're starting to crush on someone, the natural thing to wonder is if they like you back. After all, making a move will be a lot less scary if you already knew they were into you too. If you're wondering if your interest is reciprocated,…
By Kristine Fellizar

Experts Reveal What It Means If Someone Is Mad At You In Your Dream

It can make you feel a little uneasy when you wake up from a dream where someone you know is angry at you. While dreams are open to interpretation, these kinds of dreams can still leave you wondering what it all actually means. Sometimes dreaming…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Ways To De-Escalate Situations With An Emotionally Reactive Partner

Every couple has their share of issues that need to be talked out and worked through together. In order to solve anything, it's important to come into the discussion with a clear mind and a willingness to hear your partner out and make compromises.…
By Kristine Fellizar

5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Giving Your Partner A Second Chance

Both you and your partner will likely make your share of mistakes, and if you want your relationship to keep moving forward, it's important to master the art of forgiveness. But what happens when that second chance becomes a third or a fourth? How…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Signs Your Partner Isn't Enough For You, Even If You Love Them

Is love ever enough to sustain a happy, healthy, and long-term relationship? The reality is, you can love someone so much, but if your partner does not make an effort, it may be time to ask yourself when enough is enough. According to…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Signs Your Relationship Won't Last After The First 3 Months Of Dating

It's so easy to get swept up in the rush of lovey-dovey feelings you get from dating someone new. But according to experts, it's pretty important to stay grounded during the first three months of dating. Because as amazing as those new love feels…
By Kristine Fellizar

If Your Partner Does Any Of These 10 Things, They Aren't Fully Over Their Ex

When you're dating as an adult, it's pretty much a given that whoever you're with will enter the relationship with some kind of relationship history. Although the healthy thing to do is to let the past stay in the past, that's easier said than done.…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Texts To Send When You're Cancelling A Date, Based On The Situation

There are a number of different reasons for wanting to cancel a date. Maybe something came up at work and you just can't make it. Maybe you're not feeling well, or maybe you're just not feeling it anymore. Regardless of the reason for wanting to…
By Kristine Fellizar

5 Ways To Cope With Unrequited Love For Your Best Friend, According To Experts

In a perfect world, the person you're in love with would feel the same way. Sadly, that's not always the case. Dealing with unrequited love can be really tough. But what do you do when you have unrequited feelings for a friend? According to experts,…
By Kristine Fellizar

The One Sign You Need A Major Life Change, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Although change can be scary, it's necessary for growth. It's easier to stay in a job that's not going anywhere or a relationship that's past its expiration date than it is to take that first step into the unknown. If you're someone who needs to…
By Kristine Fellizar

The Psychological Reason Scary Movies Are Sometimes Oddly Comforting

Scary movies are something you either really love or avoid at all costs. Logically, we should be running away from things that induce fear. But horror movies have a way of drawing a lot of people in. It's a little confusing if you stop and think…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Signs It's Time To Get Over Your Crush — And Exactly How To Do That

Crushes are always fun in the beginning. You can't stop smiling whenever you think of them and you get butterflies in your stomach when they're around. Having a crush just gives you something to look forward to each day. Ideally, your crush would…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Non-Awkward Ways To Give Your Partner Direction In Bed

Having good sex doesn't always happen immediately. It can take time, practice, and a lot of communication. According to The Gottman Institute, couples that talk about sex typically have better sex. If your partner isn't quite giving you what you…
By Kristine Fellizar

How To Respond When Someone Cancels A Date

Getting ready for a date takes quite a bit of energy and mental preparation. So it can be really disappointing when someone suddenly has to cancel on you the day of. It's normal to feel bummed out, mad, and confused. But according to experts, how…
By Kristine Fellizar

9 Wedding Cake Alternatives, If You Want Something Non-Traditional

The wedding cake is always a must-see at any reception. It can definitely say a lot about the couple and their personality. When it comes to your wedding, you can go traditional or be as creative as you like. Nowadays, you don't even need a wedding…
By Kristine Fellizar

Experts Reveal The 7 Signs An Immature Partner Is Ready To Grow Up

More often than not, being with someone who's emotionally immature will only lead to stress and frustration. This is especially true if you're ready for a serious commitment and they're not close to giving it to you. But according to experts, your…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Signs The Person You Have On The Back Burner Is Actually Right For You

Many people have backup plans just in case their initial plans don't work out. In many cases, it's smart. But when it comes to love, having a relationship backup plan can get a little tricky. A 2015 study published in the journal Communication…
By Kristine Fellizar

7 Ways To Help Your Partner With Their Sexual Insecurities

As great as sex can be, it can also have a way of bringing out your insecurities. Everyone has their sexual hang-ups or things that prevent them from being in the moment and enjoying sex with their partner. If your partner's insecurities are getting…
By Kristine Fellizar