Here’s What 75% Of Americans Want In Bed

Plus, how the pandemic affected our sex lives.

If you thought you were the only one who let their stress get in the streets and between the sheets — think again. Fifty-six percent of participants agreed that their anxiety about the state of the world damped their sex life.

Of the 56% of participants that dealt with pandemic anxiety, 60% of participants reported having sex less frequently since the start of the pandemic.

Since the start of the pandemic, 60% of respondents reported feeling “in their head” during sex — in a bad way.

Fifty-six percent of participants reported feeling stressed that their sexual performance wasn’t meeting their partners’ expectations. Of the respondent that feel sexual performance anxiety, 73% of respondents said it increased during the pandemic.

Seventy-five percent of respondents reported that it’s “extremely” or “very” important to them to overcome their sexual anxiety.

The pandemic didn’t dismantle the orgasm gap. In fact, 42% of cis men surveyed reported climaxing as often as their partners did. But only 21% of cis women surveyed said the same.

In a pandemic, it’s hard to do anything without pre-planning. Still, 73% of all respondents said they wish they were having more spontaneous sex.

While more time indoors may mean more fooling around, most Americans skip past the flirty stuff. Sixty percent of respondents reported “rushing” through foreplay during penetrative sex.