What Guys Really Think Of Anal Sex

I have never had to ask myself: "Do men love anal sex?", because in every relationship I've ever had, it always came up at some point; even with guys who were more on the casual side. To this day, I don't fully understand the whole back door intrigue. Why does it feel like every guy wants to do this? What is it about anal that's so appealing? The best part is, when I ask this — which I have several times — there's never really a clear answer, just a lot of shrugs, mumbling "It's just, different."

Well, no kidding!

There are plenty of women who love anal sex, too. They know all the tips and best positions for it, even. Some say their orgasms are better or that they have more. I've even met these girls. Then of course there are the ones who are terrified of it in general, and I'm not ashamed to admit I'm one of them.

What about guys? What do they really, really think about this sexual act that's been a topic of interest for them for, well, ever? Is it for bragging purposes or just about the way it feels?

I decided to find out by asking a slew of men this very question. Turns out not all of my theories were off, but there's also a lot more to it than just "it's different."

1. Michael, 36

2. Jason, 31

3. Chris, 26

4. Frank, 25

5. David, 29

6. Ben, 34

7. Kevin, 27

8. Dan, 33

9. Matt, 32

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