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7 Signs Your Partner Was Emotionally Abused By Their Ex

Your partner may have completely moved on from their ex. But unfortunately, baggage from past relationships can have a way of staying with you for an undetermined amount of time. If your partner was emotionally abused by they ex, chances are, it…
By Kristine Fellizar

The Best Opening Lines To Use On Tinder When You're Sick Of Having Dead-End Conversations

Whether you've used dating apps or not, you've probably seen some very cringe-worthy messages that other people have received. When you're swiping away in search of love (or lust), it can be hard to think of opening lines for Tinder that are…
By Jordan Bissell

The 11 Best Sex Toys For Threesomes

When it comes to threesomes, there's the camp that wants to keep it as a fantasy, those who have it on their sexual bucket list, and others who have them on a regular basis. It's those in the latter two groups that either know what sex toys are best…
By Amanda Chatel

Astrologers Say These 4 Zodiac Signs May Have Trouble Setting Boundaries

In a strong relationship, setting healthy boundaries is key, no matter what your zodiac sign. Maybe that means setting aside time to be alone, asking not to be called certain nicknames, or asking that your partner not share images of you on social…
By Jordan Bissell

Experts Say These 7 Disagreements Actually Mean Your Relationship Is Just Fine

While you don't have to argue with your partner in order to stay connected, getting caught up in the occasional disagreement can mean your relationship is strong. Not only does it show you're comfortable enough with each other to say what's on your…
By Carolyn Steber

4 Ways A Partner Should Support You & 3 Ways They Shouldn't, According To Experts

Is your partner your biggest cheerleader? Your partner should support you in a number of ways, but there are actually some ways that they shouldn't support you as well. According to experts, it can sometimes be tricky to figure how to provide love…
By Jordan Bissell

Not Scheduling Dates, No Self-Love, & 4 Other Things That Will “Ruin” Intimacy For You

Once people start having an intimate life, a lot of things come into play. You can't just go willy-nilly into a new partnership without intentionally trying to keep it healthy, consensual, and happy. You also want to make sure you avoid things that…
By Amanda Chatel

9 Ways To Figure Out What’s Missing From Your Relationship, According To Experts

There are lots of reasons why it might feel like something is missing from your relationship. If you and your partner aren't communicating often enough, you might crave a deeper sense of understanding or connection. If you don't go on dates, it…
By Carolyn Steber

4 Zodiac Signs That Are Rarely In Codependent Relationships, According To Astrologers

No matter what your zodiac sign is, it won't completely determine whether or not you'll be codependent in a relationship. As a unique person, you're free to make your own choices and you have a personality that's all your own. But certain signs are…
By Jordan Bissell

What I Wish I Knew Before I Told My Friends I Wasn’t Drinking Anymore

In 2017, I was ready to admit to myself, and others, that I had a drinking problem. It was scary to write a personal essay about my excessive alcohol use, especially in a culture where drinking is such an integral part of how we celebrate, how we…
By Amanda Chatel

4 Zodiac Signs That Are The Most Likely To Start Fights With Their Partners

Are you someone who avoids confrontation at all costs? Or are you more likely to start a fight with your partner when you're feeling upset? Each person is a little different, so a quick temper might make you more likely to instigate a fight,…
By Jordan Bissell