Have A Better Orgasm With These 12 Sex Toys

Last year, BBC released an article entitled “The Mystery Of The Female Orgasm,” and it got a bit of flak from readership. Why? Because apparently, it’s not really all that different than the male one, and the advice surrounding how to have a better and more intense orgasm is actually pretty straightforward. There’s no reason why anyone should be treating it like a Sasquatch sighting; scientifically, the female orgasm is nothing but a release of tension in the pelvic area, due to stimulation of the clitoris and the vulva. For men, it’s the same type of pelvic muscle release, just resulting from stimulation of the penis.

If you’ve done any kind of reading up on the subject, you’ve probably encountered the terms, “clitoral orgasm,” “vaginal orgasm,” and “blended orgasm,” which is a combination of the two. While these are the three most common ways women climax, there are tons of other factors that play into it. Some women prefer textures, while others prefer smooth finishes; some are way too sensitive for intense vibrations, and others need it. Bio-individuality, people — it’s really just a matter of what feels good to you. Here’s a list of the best and most successful toys in all different categories, so you can find your niche and, consequently, your happy place.

Don’t Settle – Get All The Features At Once

Pink Rabbit, $18, Amazon

For a mind-altering orgasm, this Pink Rabbit looks as intense as it performs. It’s got it all — ribbed texture, G-spot curve, clitoral stimulation ears, a rotating shaft, six settings of rotation, and seven pulsation patterns. Women everywhere are referring to it as their battery-operated partner. Guess there’s a solid reason why this guy’s got top ratings.

Explore Clitoral Stimulation

Tongue Vibrator, $28, Amazon

It’s speculated that the majority of women need clitoral stimulation in order to finish. This tongue vibrator is made for just that. It’s small, convenient, and easy to hold, and its textured phthalate-free rubber has tons of bumps and grooves for ultimate pleasure. Use it alone or with a partner; with seven amazing vibration patterns, you’re bound to find something that suits you.

Find Something With A Little More Strength

Silicone Vibrator, $23, Amazon

This silicone vibrator is known for its strength, so if you’re a little less sensitive and require more stimulation, this one’s for you. It’s got an exceptionally powerful motor with nine different speeds, and its curvy, smooth surface is great for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Reviewers love it because it’s lightweight and waterproof, and even though it’s on the smaller side, it packs a huge punch.

Go Classic And Sleek

Primal Juice Versatile Vibrator, $20, Amazon

If you tend to be a sleek and classic kind of girl, primal juice versatile vibrator puts a new twist on a classic design. It’s straight, quiet, and not intimidating, but it’s also got seven speeds and is 100 percent waterproof. Reviewers love it because it’s durable, well-made, and gets the job done, and because it comes in a sleek bag and water won’t hurt it, it’s super easy to wash and store. This vibrator is also a great option for women who tend to feel discomfort with bigger toys.

Add A Little Bit Of Texture

Joy Tickler, $18, Amazon

If you’re big into texture, this little guy is for you. This vibrator has hundreds of tiny little ticklers all over it, and its gentle curved shape is a comfortable fit for just about any woman. It’s also hypoallergenic and latex-free, and because the invigorating texture and 20 different pulse modes can be used for clitoral or G-spot stimulation, you might just experience an orgasm like never before. Bonus: totally USB-rechargeable.

Emphasize The Importance Of The G-Spot

Svakom G Spot Vibrator, $42, Amazon

According to Dr. Victoria Zdrok, proper G-spot stimulation produces a special kind of orgasm that has the potential to be a lot more powerful than a strictly-clitoral one. The Svakom vibrator has an original shape that’s ideal for stimulating your G-spot with its rounded head, but it’s also great for external stimulation, too. It’s made from safe silicone and performs under water, and because it’s sleek, rechargeable, and comes with a fun blindfold, it’ll make a great addition to anyone’s collection.

Experience Clitoral Stimulation During Intercourse

Mini Vibrating Rabbit Ring, $10, Amazon

For more intense orgasms during sex, this mini vibrating ring stimulates both of you simultaneously — your partner's base and your clitoris. It’s especially handy if you’re the type of girl who needs both penetration and clitoral stimulation, but find that it’s an inconvenience during intercourse. Since it’s stretchy, it fits most men comfortably; it’s also made from ton-toxic silicone, and the battery life lasts roughly two hours.

Practice Kegels For A Better Orgasm

Kegels Exercise Kit, $26, Amazon

Kegels are an awesome way to make your orgasms stronger and more pleasurable. The exercise strengthens the muscles that contract during climax, and that’s why this kegels exercise kit is a great option for anyone looking to up the intensity. It comes with everything you need to learn, including two medical grade kegel exercisers with safety strings, a six-step training program for both beginners and advanced users, and a draw-string bag for convenient storage.

Add A Little Excitement In Public

Ohmibod Vibrating Panties, $49, Amazon

Exciting and daring situations boost your sex drive because of an increase in adrenalin, and that’s why these vibrating panties add an enticing twist to your usual routine. They’re stretchy and light, so they fit most women, and the remote control vibrating egg slips right into the panties for a comfortable and snug fit. Best of all, it’s rechargeable, and lasts up to four hours on one charge.

Get A Travel-Friendly Buddy

Lipstick Vibrator, $8, Amazon

For an intense O on-the-go, this subtle vibrator looks like a tube of lipstick, but it performs like a jackhammer. It has super powerful vibrations for such a little thing, and it runs on one battery that lasts a surprisingly long time. Best of all, because it’s discreet and small, you can throw it in your purse and pull it out wherever, whenever.

Find Which Vibrational Patterns Work For You

Bluetooth Smart Vibrator, $40, Amazon

If you tend to get bored with your toys and want one with a little more diversity, this bluetooth smart vibrator syncs up to your phone so you can create any vibrational pattern you want. You can sync it up to music, surrounding noise, or draw a wave pattern, and because it’s ultra silent, small, and waterproof, there’s nowhere you can’t wear it. It can stimulate both the clitoris and the g-spot simultaneously, and if you’re looking for even more excitement, let your partner borrow your phone for a bit.

Stimulate Your Whole Body

Shibari Mini Halo, $33, Amazon

For something a little more broad, this Shibari Mini Halo is deemed a “personal massager,” ideal for tense muscles and working out knots… or, y’know, not. It’s entirely waterproof and has 20 different vibrational speeds and patterns, and because it’s USB-rechargeable, you never have to worry about batteries. It’s great for you or your partner on just about any body part you can think of, including use during foreplay. Also, the phrase “holy orgasm” has been tossed around once or twice in the reviews.

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