Aziz Ansari's "Modern Romantics" Subreddit Is Hilarious, Yet Heartwarming
In case you missed it: comedian and star Parks and Recreation Aziz Ansari created a subreddit called Modern Romantics, along with NYU professor Eric Klinenberg, to cull material for a new book he's writing, which Klinenberg is helping him with. Evidently, Ansari is all about the romance; his last comedy special Buried Alive which he premiered on Netflix, was all about Ansari turning 30 and feelin' the pressures of finding love "at his age," "as a millennial," etc.
Created Tuesday morning, the subreddit is already generating a lot of thoughtful responses and not as many "humanity has failed us" responses as most subreddits are wont to do. Maybe it's because Ansari seems to attract a certain type of fan to his funny, thoughtful comedy. Ansari's last special used a lot of audience participation, and his new subreddit is just more proof that he's just a guy that likes talking to people. If there's a reason his fans feel particularly connected to him, it's because Ansari really does make an effort to hear their stories and experiences and incorporate them into his comedy.
It's an interesting use of the medium; not that Reddit is without its merits, but obviously the fedora-friendly site is often used for evil. I like Ansari's iteration of it as a public forum to lament (and celebrate!) the state of finding love in a post-Twitter/Tinder world. Some of the questions that Ansari posted as threads include: "If you've been single in the smartphone era and the eras before, how have things changed?" and more conventional questions like "What's the first date you've ever been on?" Even though the subreddit only went live Tuesday morning, there are already some quality responses.
In response to "What's the best first date you've ever been on?"
Gets a little Pinteresty in the middle with the felt flowers, but points regained for Silence of the Lambs.
In response to "Has anyone broken up or gotten into a huge fight with a partner based on something you saw on their phone or computer?"
Who is this person and how do they exercise such restraint?
There's also a really interesting conversation going on in the thread about whether being single is exhausting or not. A lot of redditors came forth and said that actually, being young now, there's very little time to think about being in a relationship, and they're just too exhausted trying to improve themselves to even entertain the idea of a relationship. It's sort of sad but pretty truthful.
You can contribute to Ansari's Reddit thread, and who knows? You might even end up in his book. Love isn't dead just yet.