1. Being a Dominant
Although gender stereotypes suggest otherwise, being dominant in the bedroom is the most common sexual fantasy for women. Experts speculate that this is actually due to the lack of power that women have in society, since men are often in control of our social systems. In terms of personality, if you're easy going and laid back, you're more likely to have this sort of fantasy, since it allows you to gain control.
2. Being a Submissive
Being a sub is also a very common fantasy for women. This type of fantasy has created controversy among sexuality and psychology experts, but the one thing everyone agrees on is that having a submissive sexual fantasy means that you probably have some control issues. In one study, socially dominant women reported enjoying fantasies of submission more than others, which actually makes a lot of sense — it can be relieving to give up power.
3. Being Watched
If you think about voyeurism while getting it on, you're probably an adrenaline junkie. It's the anxiety of being able to get caught that makes this fantasy so exciting! You also may have slightly low self-esteem or may have unresolved family conflicts, as both have been cited as part of the psychology of this fantasy.
4. The Perfect Partner
Being seduced and ravished by someone who is your knight in shining armor is a very common sexual fantasy among women. This might be your current partner, an ex, a celebrity, a next-door-neighbor, or even a cousin. Since this fantasy usually involves idealizing, it may suggest that you need to spice up your love life or that you're not satisfied with the current state of your reality. Also, if you are in a relationship and fantasizing about someone else, it's perfectly healthy to do so and doesn't mean you're going to cheat, as many would speculate.