13 Sexy Things To Buy Yourself Because You Totally Deserve It

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The Internet is absolutely loaded with gift guides for the people you love, and one of the most popular genres are lists of romantic presents to get your partner. But what about sexy gifts for yourself? In the words of Parks and Rec's Donna Meagle, it's time to "treat yo'self."

Sex is about experiencing something great with a partner, but it's also about getting to know your own body and your own pleasure, and these naughty gifts to give yourself can without a doubt help with that endeavor.

While some of these gifts can be used alongside a partner, others are 100 percent for you and you alone. (Hey, why not spend some quality time with yourself?) The health benefits of masturbation are numerous, including stress relief, improved cardiovascular health, better sleep, fewer UTIs, and a stronger sense of confidence during sex, so using what works for your body is a must, whether it's a vibrator or a little extra lube.

On top of sex toys, you've got a few things thrown in there that just help you feel a little bit sexier, like a gorgeous robe and a chic travel bag for all your cosmetics. So do yourself a favor, tuck away your holiday shopping list, take a break from other people, and pick out a few sexy gifts that are all for you.

Protect Your Vaginal Health With This Lubricant

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Organic Glide Probiotic All Natural Personal Lubricant, $18, Amazon

Not only is the Organic Glide lubricant smooth and non-staining with a natural feel, but it's actually great for your vaginal health. In addition to using all-natural ingredients (without parabens, alcohol, or flavorings), it's actually infused with probiotics to balance the pH of your vagina and strengthen your immune system. It's a great option if you're prone to UTIs and yeast infections, and it feels incredible.

This Sleek And Sexy Vibrator For Solo-Play

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SVAKOM Billy Rechargeable Vibrator, $50, Amazon

There's nothing sexier than a vibrator, and the SVAKOM Billy rechargeable vibrator is about as sexy as they come. In addition to its sleek curve for G-spot stimulation, it's got five vibration modes and 25 frequencies for the most earth-shattering orgasms every time. It's also entirely waterproof, made from body-safe materials, and super quiet.

A Chic Travel Bag For Your Makeup

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CHICECO Large Makeup Bag, $20, Amazon

"Sexy" doesn't always have to mean "sex-related." Splurging on yourself with a functional luxurious gift, like this CHICECO Large Makeup Bag, can have the same effect on your mood. In addition to being waterproof, roomy, and easy to clean, this makeup bag ensures that all your toiletries or cosmetics are transported and displayed in a sleek, classy way, and it comes in your choice of eight modern colors.

This Journal To Record All Your Sexy Times

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Love and Lust Sex Journal, $19, Amazon

If you feel like reliving your past sexual adventures, or planning for your future ones, the Love and Lust sex journal is the place to do it. Written by Susie Bright, sex guru, speaker, and respected author, this private journal has quotes and suggestive prompts that give you a safe and fun place to reflect on your sex life, so you can explore your endeavors all over again.

Keep Things Smooth And Silky All Over

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Codream 4-in-1 Personal Groomer, $31, Amazon

If you're all for the body hair movement, that's totally awesome. If not, the Codream 4-in-1 personal groomer can help you feel smooth and groomed all the time. In addition to being entirely wireless and rechargeable, it comes with four separate attachments for shaving, trimming, buffing, and epilating, so you can get silky skin from head to toe. That's why reviewers are saying things like, "This is an excellent grooming tool that saves you time, money and space beneath the bathroom counter."

A Starter Kit For The Bondage-Curious

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MOJOYBed Restraints Bondage Kit, $25, Amazon

The MOJOY bed restraints bondage kit comes with just about everything that a bondage-beginner needs, from a robe and blindfold to cuffs and clamps. It's adjustable to fit almost everyone, soft and non-toxic for a body-safe experience, and works under your mattress for installation-free use.

This Robe That'll Prompt Some Serious Self-Love

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ohyeah Women's Nightie Sheer Robe (4 - 18), $19 - $20, Amazon

Lingerie is one thing, but a sexy robe brings the self-love to a whole new level. This ohyeah nightie sheer robe is made from a lightweight material and a classy sheer lace design. It also comes in five different colors, and each robe comes with a matching G-string. Reviewers say it looks stunning for photo sessions or with a partner, and since it's such high quality, it'll be your go-to for years to come.

A Candle, Massage Oil Warmer, And Post-It All In One

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Love in Luxury Pheromone Massage Oil Candle, $17, Amazon

Made with essential oils and soy, this Love in Luxury Pheromone massage oil candle melts and pours so you can use the hot liquid as a massage lubricant. It's also infused with pheromones to get things started, and the ceramic decanter is chalk-friendly so you can leave yourself or your partner little messages.

This Remote Control Vibrator That Stimulates Everything

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Fox Multifrequency Remote Control Vibrator, $69, Amazon

Another vibrator that's great for solo use, the Fox Multifrequency vibrator gives you simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation, but the coolest part about it is that it's entirely wireless, rechargeable, and remote controlled. Due to its silent vibration, you can wear it under your clothes without anyone finding out, and it's waterproof and long-lasting, too.

A Luxurious Bath Bomb With A Surprise Inside

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HeyBeauty Bath Bombs, $25, Amazon

Baths are the absolute best thing to get you in the self-love mood, and these beautiful HeyBeauty bath bombs use only natural ingredients and essential oils that pamper your skin and body. As the bomb melts away, a luxurious soap flower is revealed, and since these smell amazing and leave your skin silky smooth, they're a great addition to your night home alone.

Boost Your Confidence With A Gorgeous Lingerie Set

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Bralette And Bikini Panties Set (S - XL), $17, Amazon

I'm a huge believer in lingerie when it comes to boosting anyone's confidence, and this bralette and bikini panties set is a great place to start. With a stretchy pink fabric and a gorgeous lace overlay, this matching set hugs your curves, accentuates your assets, and makes for a great addition to anyone's underwear drawer. "Finally a beautiful, supportive bra for big breasted women," says one reviewer, while another says, "This is my favorite set now. It looks exactly like the photo and fits perfectly."

This Game For When Someone Special Comes Over

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Dalliance Sex Dice Game, $18, Amazon

This high-quality Dalliance Sex Dice Game makes for an awesome gift to yourself, because you never know when you'll need to dig them out of your bedside drawer. Four different die give you 60 erotic foreplay ideas and 24 sexual positions. This set also comes with an explanation booklet and a classy satin bag for easy play and storage.

A Toy That Helps With Solo-Play As Well As Couple's

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Toughable Inflatable Toy Pillow, $19, Amazon

The Toughable inflatable toy pillow makes an awesome gift for yourself, because it can be used as a holder for most penetrative toys and it's easy to wash, inflate, and store. However, it can also be used as a sex cushion to help couples achieve better angles and more comfort during intercourse, and that's why people are totally loving it.

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