When it comes to stress in relationships, money often plays a pretty significant role. Money problems are stressful in and of themselves, but combine that with the fact that so few people are willing to have open, frank conversations about finances, then things can get really ugly.
"No matter what their financial situation, couples need to take time to determine their money philosophy, both individually . . . and as a couple," Jamie Traeger-Muney, a wealth psychologist, tells Bustle. "The couple needs to take time to determine what approach will feel the most fair."
Sounds simple enough, right? But it's easier said than done. And a recent national survey from Experian looked at 500 adults who had been divorced in the last five years and, well, money is a major concern. In fact, 59 percent said finances played somewhat of a role in their divorce — and 20 percent said it played a big role, which isn't great. Even more worrying, 71 percent of women and 60 percent of men said that their former spouses spending habits ended up being different than they thought they would be before they were married, showing a serious lack of open communication.
Here's what else Experian learned in their survey, because it'll make you want to create a money spreadsheet with your partner ASAP: