On a recent Jimmy Kimmel appearance promoting his latest Black Mass, Johnny Depp joked about taking his wife Amber Heard's last name. Some context: Depp was speaking to Kimmel about the fact that he doesn't know anything about the last name Depp or where it came from. Kimmel noted that Depp's twice-married wife Amber Heard did not take Depp's last name. The actor joked that he might take Heard's last name, which Kimmel replied to with a skeptical laugh and a "that would be a weird thing."
Kimmel's response strikes me as strange, as the real weird thing is that women are still expected to give up their names for the men they marry. And it's not so strange for men, including male celebrities, to take the last names of the women they marry. Quite a few men have taken their wives names, sometimes for practical reasons, but often for the feminist cause of questioning the assumption that a woman must give up a part of herself in order to be married. While a woman should be allowed to take her husband's name if she chooses, it should be a choice, and not laughed off as weird if a man wants to make that choice instead.
Depp would be wise to at least consider turning his joke into a reality, and Kimmel could learn a thing or two from these male celebs who either took their wives' last names, or added their wives' last names to their own.
1. Jack White
While the couple and White Stripes bandmates are now divorced, Jack White changed his name from Jack Gillis when he married Meg White in 1996 and has kept that name.
2. Marco Saldana
Director Marco Perego caused quite a stir when he took actress Zoe Saldana's last name, though he apparently told his wife that he didn't give a s**t about the potential emasculation.
3. Todd Fink
When the lead singer of The Faint Todd Baechle married Azure Ray musician Orenda Fink, he took her last name.
4. Shawn Knowles-Carter
While best known as Jay Z, the rapper reportedly added wife Beyoncé's legal last name to his own.
5. John Ono Lennon
The Beatle added his wife Yoko Ono's last name as his middle name, and she did the same for his.
6. Carlos PenaVega
Musician Carlos Pena, Jr. and actress Alexa Vega beautifully combined their names when they got married.
7. Jon Cox Mohr
Actor and comedian Jay Mohr added Nikki Cox's last name when they married in 2006.
So, Depp and Kimmel, taking your wife's name isn't so hilarious after all, and it even has its benefits. In the modern world we all now live in, the tradition of a woman taking her man's last name shouldn't be an expectation resulting in laughter when it's not followed. It's a tradition that can easily be turned on its head without judgment.