To some, great sex is mercurial and magical and arrives just when you least expect it. To others, great sex takes work, but you're more likely to know when it's going to, uh, come. Although there is no one way to achieve a sick session, there are plenty of reasons why working on your sex game can make for better sex.
The idea of a "sexual soulmate" always seemed unrealistic to me. Sure there can be fantastic one night stands where you meet a new person, barely communicate, and yet somehow your bodies manage to take over and provide a completely bewitching below-the-belt experience. A lot of the time, however, it's the folks you "practice" with who provide the mind blowing moments where one orgasm stretches into two into three into the sexual stratosphere. (Good sex always calls for space metaphors, obvs.)
Because of this, I've found that the hours of horizontal training you put in with a person is what really makes for the most memorable encounters. In that sense, anyone can become your sexual soulmate if there's attraction and desire to explore your mutual pleasure together.
Here are five reasons why working towards great sex is part of the fun: