There's lots of advice out there about how to solve sexual problems, but that's not the most positive way to look at improving your sex life. Rather than figure out what's wrong with your sex life and try to fix it, why not see all the ways it's great and try to make it even better? The more you see the positive, the more it'll grow. And even if you're already happy with your sex life, there's no harm in adding even more positive things to it.
"If you're closing your eyes going 'this is good,' you can train your body to call a situation good," sex educator Lucia Paxton tells Bustle. "If you're calling the situation good, your sex life gets much easier. Pleasure is subjective. It's our minds telling us 'this feels good and bad.' So if you can feel anything, I would call it good because guess what? You're feeling. And from that place of good, that can only get better. That's the fun part. You're always going to be in that state of being open to what's next and the possibilities."
So, how can you make your already good sex life even better? Here are some tips from sex experts.