I'm a freelance writer and editor whose work has also appeared in The Washington Post, The Village Voice, Vice, Salon, Glamour, Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Elle, Marie Claire, Refinery29, and more. I hold degrees in Gender & Sexuality Studies, Modern Culture & Media, and Cognitive Neuroscience, which I use mainly to over-analyze trashy television and argue over semantics.
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6 Tips For Maximizing The Health Benefits Of Sex

You often hear about the health benefits of sex. But was all sex created equal in this regard? There are, after all, infinite ways to have sex. And if something as fun as sex can improve your health, you'd might as well take advantage of it as much a…
By Suzannah Weiss

5 Signs Your Partner Is Your Spiritual Match, At Least For Now

There's lots of debate over whether we have one soulmate, there are multiple soulmates, or the whole concept of soulmates is made up. Another possibility is that we only have one, but we have more spiritual matches, psychic Deborah Graham, host of Si…
By Suzannah Weiss

It's Time To Stop Concern-Trolling Women For Working “Too Much”

A few months ago, I accepted a job at a highly-esteemed publication. I was excited to share this news with my family and friends. But what I thought would lead to congratulations became a prompting for me to defend my work habits. Two people responde…
By Suzannah Weiss

Stop Telling Me I'm A "Freak" For Liking Sex

“You seem like a freak.” I’m not sure exactly what it was that made a guy I’d just met tell me this. Maybe it was that I’d said I was a sex and relationships writer, which quickly escalated into a conversation about sex. I didn’t disclose many detail…
By Suzannah Weiss

7 Signs Your Energy Is Closed Off To Love, According To A Psychic

Finding love requires more than just the actions of going on dates or setting up an online dating profile. It also requires opening yourself up to love and giving off the vibe that you're open. You may not even realize it if you're energetically bloc…
By Suzannah Weiss

Yup, It's Totally Common For Your Sexual Preferences To Change — And Here's Why

Sian, 22, feels attraction to people of all genders, but it varies from week to week. Sometimes, she exclusively wants to date women and non-binary people. Other times, gender's not a factor. She's not sure why this is, but it's very common. Many peo…
By Suzannah Weiss

Amber Rose Reveals Her 6 Favorite Sex Toys — And Why You Should Try Them

Amber Rose is known as an advocate for sex-positivity, so many were surprised to learn on The Amber Rose Show in 2016 that she had never used a sex toy. But since then, she has not only discovered the wonders of the vibrator (and the butt plug and th…
By Suzannah Weiss

12 Little Changes To Make To Your Nighttime Routine That Will Improve Your Sleep Quality

I always thought “sleep hygiene” was a weird term. After all, it actually has nothing to do with hygiene. Instead, it’s “a set of behaviors that make your environment more conducive to sleep,” Dr. Tzvi Doron, a physician at Roman, tells Bustle, and …
By Suzannah Weiss

Here's How You Can Make Your Valentine's Day Sex Extra Special

This Valentine's Day, some of us will be looking forward to romantic candlelit dinners and gift exchanges. The best part, though, is what'll happen after those activities. But how do you make Valentine's Day sex stand out from typical, everyday sex? …
By Suzannah Weiss

How To Use Getting Fired To Your Advantage, According To Career Experts

One Friday in February 2015, I was taking the day off work to host a friend from out of town when I got a call from my company’s CEO. “We’ve done some restructuring, and all of marketing and sales were laid off,” he told me. That included me. I was s…
By Suzannah Weiss

4 Common Decision-Making Mistakes That Are Holding You Back

Every day, we make hundreds of little decisions, from whether or not to get up when our alarms ring to what to think about when we're lying in bed at night. So, it's unfortunate that decision-making mistakes are literally built into our brains. Human…
By Suzannah Weiss

I Got Hypnotized Into Feeling Like A Queen & It's Nothing Like I Expected

You sometimes hear about people being hypnotized into quacking like ducks and doing other wacky things. Then, there are the more useful application for hypnosis, like quitting a bad habit. But what if the change you desire is internal? Can hypnosis c…
By Suzannah Weiss

6 Ways To Have Better Sex Just By Using Your Breath

We don’t normally think about breathing, since it comes so naturally to us. But just because we’re going to breathe whether we think about it or not doesn’t mean we’re using our breath in the best way possible. That’s no truer at any time than it is …
By Suzannah Weiss

7 Things To Do Now If You Want To Travel & Work Full-Time

Many people have a dream of becoming location-independent, and it's easy to see why. After all, it means you can travel without sacrificing your work or other responsibilities. The process of getting a remote job and planning your life so that you do…
By Suzannah Weiss

7 Things No Woman Should Have To Put Up With At Work

When you're treated a certain way consistently, you can start to believe you deserve that kind of treatment. So, it's not surprising that many women develop inferiority complexes at work. There are lots of things women put up with at work that they s…
By Suzannah Weiss

6 Tips For Boosting Your Confidence In Bed, According To A Sexologist

Confidence is something a lot of us could work on. After all, when you're confident, others assume you have a reason to be, and they respect you accordingly. There's a lot of discussion around being more confident at work or on dates, but what about …
By Suzannah Weiss

5 Surprising Things That Happen To Your Body When You Travel All The Time

I used to look forward to getting home and sleeping in my own bed after a trip. But now, there is no “home” or “own bed” because my life is a non-stop trip. I’m a digital nomad, so I don’t get a break from the physical effects of travel. After changi…
By Suzannah Weiss

17 Women Reveal The Age When They First Felt Like "Adults"

I used to imagine that at some unspecific age, I would change. I would look like the full-grown women I knew, and I would feel like a woman. I kind of expected I'd feel like an adult by my mid 20s, but at 27, I don't. I still constantly have to refra…
By Suzannah Weiss

This Is The Toughest But Most Important Thing I've Ever Done For My Career

Of all the sucky emotions out there, there's nothing we try to avoid quite like embarrassment. From eschewing public speaking to something as basic as locking bathroom doors, we go to great lengths not to end up embarrassed. Which is why it was terri…
By Suzannah Weiss

People Who Identify As Asexual Reveal What Their Sex Lives Are Actually Like

When some people hear the word “asexual,” they think of someone who doesn’t have sex. But actually, some asexual people do have sex. And they masturbate. And they look at porn. And they do pretty much everything, because there are as many ways to be …
By Suzannah Weiss