Because we talk so much about dating apps, it can be easy to forget that sex apps are also really popular. And I'm not talking about hookup apps. I'm talking about apps that help you explore your sexuality. One of these is sexual couples app iPassion, which lets you and your partner explore and learn about each other, is really gaining steam. It's already used by one percent of the Danish population — and more than 10,000 Americans a month are following suit. The app looked into how we feel about role playing, to see which fantasies are the most popular.
And remember: if you're interested but have never done it before, it's totally OK to ease your way in. “I suggest take it slow and start with a mild version of the fantasy,” Dr. Dawn Michael, certified clinical sexologist, sexuality counselor, and author of My Husband Wont Have Sex With Me, tells Bustle. “Perhaps a guy has always wanted his wife to control him in bed, [so] maybe they start out with her telling him a few things that she wants him to do to her or vice versa.”
But what are people actually interested in doing in bed? Well, iPassion looked at over 40,000 users in the United States to find out exactly what kind of role play people are looking for — and I can tell you, it gets pretty kinky.