7 Ways To Incorporate Your Sexual Fantasies Into Your Sex Life

Ashley Batz for Bustle

Sexual fantasies are completely normal. Even if you’ve yet to discover your sexual fantasies, you probably have them. It’s just a matter of digging deep into the dark recesses of your brain and finding them.

For a long time, scientists were unsure what constituted as “typical” versus “unusual.” So, a team of researchers at the University of Montreal decided to conduct a study to examine what fantasies were more common than others. What they found was that, for the most part, women fantasize about sex in other places outside the bedroom while men fantasize about receiving oral sex. Although there were those who fantasized about things like golden showers or crossing-dressing, among other things that aren’t so run-of-the-mill, these were categorized as “unusual,” but only in the sense that fewer people fantasized about them.

Once you recognize your sexual fantasies, your next step might be to try to incorporate them into your sex life, but if your fantasies aren’t all that “typical” it can feel awkward AF. No worries! You can make it happen; here's how.