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It can be easy for your sex life to take a hit in the fall. The weather is getting colder, you're spending more time indoors, and you may feel like sitting on the couch reaching for the remote more than you feel like breaking out the lube or trying out new sex toys. I know, you want to just pull out your warm coats, grab a pumpkin spice latte and watch Netflix — I do too. The great thing is though, if you do want to be having sex and spicing things up a bit, there's totally time to have it all.
The truth is, your sex life benefits from mixing it up now and then. And with all the time you'll be spending at home during the colder months, the fall is the perfect time to make any changes you want to your sex life. "Repeating the same behaviors in a predictable manner can reduce their associated pleasure," Astroglide's resident sexologist, Dr. Jess O'Reilly, tells Bustle. "Research shows that dopamine levels can be twice as high when rewards are unpredictable, so change things up and watch your pleasure soar."
Here are the best sex positions to go with the new season, because your pumpkin spice latte will still be there when you're done.
1
Weak In The Knees
How To Do It: One partner lays on their back while the other straddles their face, slowly lowering down. It's an intense position, but a really sexy one. Just make sure you switch half way through.
Why It's Great: I mean, it's about as warm and close as you can get. Plus, it works for straight couples or lesbians — and either way it's hot as hell.
2
X Marks The Spot
How To Do It: You get to relax in this one, just lay on the edge of a bed while your partner stands. Rest your legs on their chest and cross at the ankles — or the knees— while you guide them inside of you.
Why It's Great: It's a really intimate position that has added intensity with your partner standing. Plus, there's a really tight fit and a perfect opportunity for clit play.
3
In A Chair
How To Do It: Your partner sits in a chair while you straddle them and lower down. Keep facing them for an intimate position or face away from them for something a little more intense.
Why It's Great: A great one for fall because you feel really close and warm, you can get go for grinding or bouncing, depending on what you're in the mood for.
4
Doggy With Vibrator
How To Do It: It's your classic doggy style position but with a vibrator for extra clitoral stimulation. Get out your favorite toy and bring to the session.
Why It's Great: An amazing position made even better by a vibrator. Like the whipped cream on your pumpkin spice latte, if you will. Oh, you will.
5
Face-To-Face
How To Do It: Lay facing your partner with your hips slightly higher than theirs on the bed. Then put your top leg over them as you pull them close and guide them inside of you. Don't be afraid to use lube! It may take a try or two.
Why It's Great: This is a super loving position. I mean, it's basically a hug in a sex position, so if you're looking for a deep connection than this it.
6
Modified Doggy
How To Do It: Start laying on your stomach and lift your torso slightly off the bed while your partner enters you from behind — or start in doggy and lower onto your elbows. Either way, it should feel really close, And you can put a pillow under your hips to make it more comfortable.
Why It's Great: A really intense position with great G-spot access, it's just as intense as doggy but more intimate. Plus, it works way better under a blanket.
7
Reverse Cowgirl
How To Do It: It's a really deep sex position that can be totally mind-blowing, but you need to move slowly. Face away from your partner and lower down, pitching your weight forward or leaning back, depending on what feels good. Just make sure your partner is comfortable too.
Why It's Great: This woman-on-top position is about going for it.
You may normally think of summer as the season of sweaty sex, and fall as the pumpkin spice latte time of the year, but there's no reason your autumn can't be just an banging as every other season. So even though it's chilly, you can still be getting some — plus, all these positions will warm you up in no time.
