What To Do If Your Partner Is Boring In Bed

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I know I can't be the only one who's ever had to deal with a partner who's boring in bed. Sex should be fun! But when one partner is all about switching things up while the other likes to stick with the same routine, someone's going to be left feeling unsatisfied. I'm the type of person who really enjoys being adventurous in the bedroom. From exploring fantasies to testing out new toys, I'm all about trying things at least once. Because of that, I'm always hoping my partner is just as open to anything sexually as I am.

So it was pretty disappointing to me when I started dating a guy who I really liked, was super sweet, but lazy AF when it came to sex. I hate saying he was bad in bed, but it became the same exact routine every single time. So what's the best way to deal with a partner who's boring in bed?

"If you come to realize that your partner is boring in bed, congratulations! You’ve just taken the first step towards better sex," Dr. Emily Morse, host of the top downloaded sex and relationship advice podcast Sex with Emily, tells Bustle. So here are some things you can do if you feel like your partner is a bore in the bedroom: