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15 Black Friday Sex Toy Deals That'll Heat Up Your Holidays

Keep your winter season merry, bright, and spicy AF.

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Most of us can agree that 2021, among other things, has been a year to recoup and recover as we try to get back to some semblance of normalcy. Self-care has become mandatory where it once was trendy (thanks 2020), and there are few better ways to close out this chapter with a bang than to “bang” yourself. To assist in this endeavor, we’ve gathered a list of the year’s best Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals on sex toys. You’ll definitely find some great ideas for stuffing your stockings... in more ways than one.

In May of this year, pleasure brand TENGA reported that 72% of Americans aged 18-54 agree that masturbation is a form of self-care or “therapy,” according to their Global Self-Pleasure Survey. Of the adults surveyed, 50% consider self-pleasure a part of their weekly self-care routine. Exploring masturbation is a great way to better understand your body and what turns you on most, which can benefit both you and your current or future partners.

We love a sale that feels good for both you and your wallet, so read on to see the best Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals on sex toys.

We only include products that have been independently selected by Bustle's editorial team. However, we may receive a portion of sales if you purchase a product through a link in this article.

Save 20% At Lovers

Lovers is all about sex positivity, fun, self-love, and empowerment. On Black Friday through Nov. 28, the site is offering 20% off site-wide (with some exclusions) using code: BLACKFRI20.

Save 20% At Lora DiCarlo

Lora DiCarlo (co-owned by Cara Delevingne!) aims to end sexual shame and stigma and make all people feel empowered in their sexuality. From Nov. 12 through Nov. 30, they will be offering 20% off all devices over $140. Try the deal out on their Baci, a clitoral stimulator that uses airflow technology. It just so happens to be Cara’s personal fave.

Save Up To 30% At Unbound

Pleasure brand Unbound is all about making beautiful, body-safe products for when you're feeling yourself. Their early sale starts Nov. 19 with 20% off site-wide, which ratchets up to 25% off on Black Friday — all automatically applied at checkout.

Save 25% At Emojibator

For a vibrator that's really out of the box, check out Emojibator. Their body-safe and budget-friendly toys come in super creative shapes (there's a pickle vibe for the dill lovers out there). Save 25% site-wide from Nov. 23 to Nov. 30, and receive a free vibrator or pin on orders over $100.

Save 20% At Dame

Sexual wellness company Dame is all about building community, innovating pleasure tools, and bringing empowering sexual education into your bedroom. The site is offering 20% off site-wide from Nov. 19 to Nov. 29.

Save 15% At Organic Loven

Organic Loven is a Black-owned pleasure company making intimate products that nourish the body and mind. From Nov. 26 through Nov. 28, they will offer 15% off site-wide with coupon code: BLACKFRIDAY15.

Save 20% At Babeland

Since 1993, the iconic retailer Babeland has been making space for women (and babes of all genders!) to talk about pleasure and explore new things in bed. From Black Friday to Cyber Monday, they're having a sale for 20% off site-wide (only excluding gift cards). Additionally, you can expect free shipping on all orders $69 or over.

Save $15 At Ohnut

Aimed at making penetrative sex less painful and more pleasurable, Ohnut will offer $10 off all Ohnuts (classic and wider, originally $65) from Nov. 22 to Nov. 28. These soft and comfortable buffer rings assist in adjusting the depth of penetration during sex, customizing your experience to make you and your partner feel as good as possible.

Save 25% At OhMiBod

From Nov. 22 to Nov. 30, sex tech company OhMiBod is offering 25% off site-wide (some exclusions apply) with code: BLACKFRIDAY. Each purchase will also include a free LoveLife Lubricant and some holiday goodies.

Save 25% At Elvie

Elvie is a FemTech brand offering 25% off their best-selling products, including the Elvie kegel trainer, Elvie Curve and Elvie Catch from Nov. 21 to Nov. 30 on their site and Amazon.

Save 30% At The Thruster

The Thruster is a build-your-own, self-thrusting vibrator providing up to 136 strokes per minute. There are several models to choose from, including those specific to anal penetration (like the Walter) or G-spot stimulation (like the Nanci). From Nov. 19 to Nov. 30, you can save 30% off site-wide using the code: SAVE30.

Save Up To 50% At Le Wand

From Nov. 26 to Nov. 29, the woman-founded pleasure brand Le Wand will offer savings of up to 50% off on some of their best-selling products. Receive 25% off the Le Wand OG and Petite models, 30% off accessories and attachments, and 50% off their Chrome Mini Vibrators, Le Wand Plug-Ins, and Le Wand Crystals.

Save Up To 40% At b-Vibe

Founded by a certified sex educator, b-Vibe is a premium brand of anal play products aimed at promoting informed and empowered sexual exploration. They are offering discounts of up to 40% on a wide array of their products, like 25% off their Anal Training Kit or 40% off their Swirl Texture Plug.

Save Up To 40% At The Cowgirl

An innovative straddle-style vibrator, The Cowgirl provides intense G-spot stimulation in a luxurious and high-tech package. Great for both couples and solo play, The Cowgirl can be remote-controlled or used wirelessly through the app — available on iOS and Android. The original Cowgirl will be offered for $900 from Nov. 26 through Nov. 29 (a $600 discount!), and all non-machine products on the site will be on sale at 40% off.

Save 25% At Zalo

Luxury pleasure brand Zalo was born with the mission to both de-stigmatize pleasure and provide beautifully crafted styles worthy of display. From Nov. 25 to Nov. 30, all Zalo orders will be 25% off with code THANKS25, and each order over $100 (after discount) will come with a free feather teaser.