There are gifts for your partner, and then there are gifts for your partner. Staples from her favorite makeup line or that new cologne they've had their eye on are all well and good, but whether you’re newly together or going on 10 years, sexy presents for your significant other like vibrators, romantic games, and massage oil have the potential to seriously spice things up — for both of you. The best part? You’ll not only be able to see just how happy it makes them firsthand (wink wink), you'll probably be there to join in the fun right alongside them.
Sure, you could go to the nearest adult store and pick out the first hot pink vibrator you see, but in my opinion, naughty and romantic gifts for your partner should be something that’s well-researched. You want to personalize the gift to both your relationship and your bodies for the best results, after all. That's precisely why so many people prefer to use the Internet for these types of purchases: not only do you get to see way more options side by side, but you can also ensure that all ingredients and materials are safe, high-quality, and well-reviewed by other people who have personally tried them.
If you’re looking for something that’s creative, sexy, and functional in all the best ways, check out these sexy gift ideas for your boyfriend, girlfriend, or even yourself.
1. A Clitoris Stimulator That's The Closest To Oral A Toy Can Offer
Rather than using vibration, the Satisfyer Pro 2 uses vacuum pleasure wave technology for clitoral stimulation. On top of featuring 11 different settings, it’s also hygienic, rechargeable, and totally waterproof. Reviewers say it’s the closest thing to simulating oral sex, so it makes an awesome present for a girlfriend (or yourself).
According to one reviewer: "I love my wife more than anything, and I try REALLY hard in bed, but I almost never get her to orgasm. I knew she'd recently worn out her old vibrator (which ALWAYS got her to orgasm), so I bought her the Satisfyer Pro 2 as a gift.... If you're a woman who wants to orgasm, buy it. If you're a guy who wants to get his wife/girlfriend to orgasm, buy it - but be prepared for the possibility that you may be relegated to the role of spectator going forward."
2. A Coconut & Pineapple Candle That Melts Into Massage Oil
Both functional and aesthetically pleasing, the wax from this Kama Sutra Massage Candle melts down into a massage oil that pours straight from the tin. Infused with coconut oil, shea, and vitamin E, it’s super lubricating and really good for your skin.
According to one reviewer: "Used for body massages and the smell and feel of the oil are amazing! The oil melts easily but it is best to light for 10+ minutes before starting a massage to have ample oil. But the aroma put out while warming up is worth the wait. I will definitely buy again."
3. An Aphrodisiac Cookbook For Your Sexual Health
Because cooking is one of the sexiest activities ever, The New InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook turns any evening into an awesome date night. It’s filled with recipes that feature 19 sensual foods, and people say that it’s cleverly written, delicious, and actually useful.
According to one reviewer: "This is one of my favorite cookbooks of all time. The photography and back stories are sensual and lovely, and the recipes are luscious and divine. Definitely recommend this book for the sweetie in your life or any special occasion."
4. An All-Natural Massage Oil That Smells Incredible
With customers in love with its 100% natural formula, Lulu Orange Blossom Massage Oil has plenty of rave reviews. It doesn’t leave any greasy residue on your skin, nor will it result any stains on your sheets. What it does have: a sweet orange fragrance, a ridiculously smooth application, and just the right consistency to get things started — and keep them going.
According to one reviewer: "This massage oil is heavenly. I purchased this with a massage table and I just gave my husband his Valentine's Day gift a few days early. Beautiful scent and warming to the touch. One pump also lasted quite a while."
5. A Dice Game That Keeps Things Unpredictable
By rolling a combination of dice from this dice set, the game auto-generates erotic activities for you and your partner to try. The two 12-sided dice are illustrated with different sexual positions, the nine-sided dice has different body parts, and the six-sided dice suggests different actions such as "blow" and "suck." Plus, unlike other sexy games that can look tacky or novel, this one looks genuinely nice.
According to one reviewer: "These sex dice are well-made, stylish, and classy and come finely packaged as a perfect present with a detailed instructional guide on how to use the dice / play the game and directions on how to imitate the positions if some of them are new to you. I personally enjoy the additional bonus tips on how to take each position to the next level for when you and your partner become more experienced. It's a creative, sexy, and pleasurable product - I gifted them to my partner and we've had so much fun with them ever since. Would highly recommend these dice, and on another note, would highly recommend Dalliance as a company for their customer service was impeccable."
6. A Couple’s Vibrator For Increased Pleasure During Intercourse
This highly-rated vibrator is rechargeable, remote control operated, and made from body-safe silicone, but what’s really innovative about it is its design. Not only can it be used entirely on its own, it can also be inserted during penetration with your partner to stimulate both of you simultaneously.
According to one reviewer: "This little guy is absolutely amazing. Bought as a gift for my gf and she cannot get enough of it. We’ve bought other small vibrators but this is by far her favorite one. She loves being able to stimulate both area with it. She also said that for its small size it has some of the most intense vibrations."
7. A Sexy Game Like Jenga To Enhance Any Date Night
Ever played Jenga? This is basically the sexy version. Sex Stack is a tactical game of foreplay that can spice up any night. Each block has a number that coincides with a task or position, so you can broaden your sexual horizons and experience something new with your partner.
According to one reviewer: "Got this as an anniversary gift for my husband. Immediately opened and played. It's now our favorite form of foreplay, and probably our favorite game!"
8. Textured Strokers That Are Super Discreet
These Tenga Easy Beat Egg Masturbators are all different, providing a variety of stimulating textures. They’re one size fits all, reusable, and come with lubrication inside for the most comfortable experience.
According to one reviewer: "I bought these for my boyfriend, because he had never used toys before and I thought this would be the easiest thing to see if he liked them or not. He's kinda rough when he plays, so I got him the hard boiled ones. We have a long distance relationship at the moment, until his lease is up later this year... So, we do a lot of playing around online and I thought this would be a good, fun change of pace for him. He tried his first one yesterday and we used it several times that day.. He really loved it."
9. This Wedge Pillow Helps You Hit Just The Right Angle
If you and your partner what to enhance the romance with the help of a little geometry, this sex pillow is awesome for getting the best angle during sex. (And not just penetrative sex! It's great for propping your pelvis up for oral sex and scissoring too.) The pillow is made from a supportive, dense memory foam and has a removable, machine-washable cover.
According to one reviewer: "Pillow looks small, but the angle is everything! Bought as an anniversary gift for my husband. Can’t wait to use it over, and over, and over again!"
10. A Sexy Mood Light That Changes Colors
These remote-controlled, color-changing smart light bulbs have 12 colors and six brightness levels, so you can create whatever ambiance you want in the bedroom, whether it's a sexy crimson or a calming aqua.
According to one reviewer: "These are awesome. I put them in my bathroom. Nothing beats a soak in a jacuzzi tub with mood lighting. Makes a nice relaxing evening for the wife and I. Love these."
11. A Super Sexy Lace BodySuit That Can Be Worn In & Out Of the Bedroom
Lingerie is a classic, no-fail gift, and this lacy bodysuit is no exception. It's sexy as hell, can double as going-out top, and thanks to it's stretchy spandex fabric it's also really comfortable. It comes in tons of colors, including, red, black, purple, green, and so many more.
According to one reviewer: "Bought this to wear under my outfit for Valentine’s and to serve as one last gift for my husband. Can’t wait, he will love it!! Fit is absolutely perfect with forgiveness to easily accommodate a size smaller or larger either way, but fits me like a glove."
12. An Iconic Pair Of Calvin Klein Boxer Briefs
There is something super sexy about a pair of snug little boxer briefs, but what's really great about this pair is the silky soft modal cotton fabric. They even come in 15 colors and prints, and a full range of sizes so you can find the perfect pair to gift.
According to one reviewer: "They are made of fabrics neither of us are familiar with, Modal and Elastane, but he loves that they feel ultra soft and stretch without being tight. The pockets are a bonus and give the shorts versatility, but these are definitely shorts for inside without another pair of underwear beneath (they’re thin). If you’re looking for a pair of super comfy lounging shorts for yourself or to gift, you have to consider these. Five stars."
13. A Bondage For Beginners Kit To Spice Things Up
If you’re looking to get started with some bondage, this Straight Edge Bed Restraint System makes for a great gift. It comes with comfortable, adjustable cuffs for ankles and wrists, as well as an eye mask to engage the senses while concealing your vision. The best part: it fits any mattress — no permanent installation needed.
According to one reviewer: "I can honestly say I NEVER EVER thought that I would use anything like this, but boy I was wrong! You owe it to yourself to try it at least once. My husband ordered it and I thought he was crazy. Holy cow, just try it."
14. A Remote Control Vibrating Egg
Whether you’re giving the egg or the remote control to your partner, this Wireless Vibrating Egg is tons of fun for both of you. It’s super powerful yet really quiet, and you can recharge it in any USB port for waterproof fun wherever you go.
According to one reviewer: "This is a wonderful product. I bought this for my wife as a gift for her. She absolutely loves it. It is a great value for its price. She says that the variation in all 10 speeds are awesome. However, she specifically likes the pulsing vibrations at speeds 3, 5, and probably 7. Also, the slightly curved shaped design directly stimulates the G-spot which helps her to reach climax much easily. Overall, I am very happy that I made a right choice by buying this product."
15. A Vibrating Cock Ring That’s Ergonomically Designed For Both Of You
Great for couples looking for a little extra oomph during penetration, this vibrating cock ring has a thick silicone ring that stretches to fit just about any penis and is designed to provide clitoral stimulation during penetration. It’s also waterproof and rechargeable, so on top of being tons of fun, it’s really convenient.
According to one reviewer: "Really high quality product with nice packaging. This is great for play, but depending on what position you're in... it can get in the way during sex and push against you too hard. My husband liked the vibration though, and the ring is very stretchy and comfortable."
16. This Best-Selling Personal Lubricant
This Boy Butter Personal Lubricant is a top choice for tons of reviewers when it comes to anal play because it’s made from a sensitive yet effective combination of coconut oil and organic silicone. You can use it with a partner or on your own with toys, and it’s non-staining with no particular smell to it.
According to one reviewer: "The best lube for skin to skin (only suitable for high quality silicone toys, try a test spot first) that I've tried yet, including far more expensive silicone lube. It starts off very thick, but after a minute or two of "working" it, it turns into a very nice long lasting glide. I didn't believe it when I read it on the bottle, but somehow it washes off with just water."
17. A Wine & Cheese Cooler Bag For A Romantic Picnic
Since foreplay involves way more than just the sexual aspects, this romantic and sleek Picnic at Ascot Wine and Cheese Cooler Bag comes with everything you need for an outdoor date with your partner. It features thermal insulation to keep everything the proper temperature, as well as wine glasses, a cheese knife, a cutting board, and a corkscrew.
According to one reviewer: "I love this cooler. Perfect for byob. Lightweight, nice material and all you need for a little wine and cheese!!"
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