Does My Cat Miss Me? Here’s How To Tell If Your Furry Friend Cares Whether Or Not You’re Around

If you have pets, then you know that going on vacation can be a little bittersweet. Sure, it's great to get away from everything, relax, and go on some new adventures, but it's also really hard to take a break from your little fur babies! You miss them when you're gone, and it's not like you can call to talk to them when you're feeling particularly sad about their absence. I have three cats, and every time I travel, I make whoever is watching them send me pictures of them. I miss them so much when I'm not with them! If you feel the same way, you might sometimes wonder: how do you know if your cats actually miss you?

You'll probably wonder this specifically about cats, because it's pretty obvious that a dog misses their owner whenever they're away — plus, there's scientific evidence that backs that up. But cats? They're a little harder to decipher. You could go away for two weeks, come home, go to pick them up and cuddle them... and watch them run away from you without a care in the world (this has definitely happened to me several times). So did they really not notice, or care, about your absence? Or are they just annoyed that you left them for such a long period of time?

It's probably a mixture of both, also research doesn't totally agree on whether cats really miss their owners or not. One 2015 study from the University of Lincoln says that cats don't miss their owners the way dogs do because they don't attach to their owners in the same way dogs do. But, according to IFLScience, some research says that cats get kind of annoyed at their humans when we leave them, which could result in passive-aggressive behavior.

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But let's be real: if you have a cat, you know that you guys have a bond going on that a lot of people just don't seem to get. Research be damned! you know your cat probably missed you while you were away. But how can you tell for sure? There are a few little signs that your cat missed you while you were away, whether on a long vacation, or just a particularly lengthy work day.

For one thing, you might notice that, when you get home, your cat is purring and stretching a lot. One study from PLOS looked at how cats behave when their owners aren't home. Researchers looked at two groups: for one group, the owners were gone for 30 minutes; for the other, owners were gone for four hours. They found that the behavior of both groups, overall, remained pretty much the same — they did what they normally do despite the difference in time the owners were away. One thing they did notice, though, was that the cats were more likely to purr and stretch more for the owners who had been gone for four hours. So, if you come home and notice that your cat is purring and stretching a lot, that could be a sign that they're happy you finally came back.

Another sign your cat missed you is that they might seem a little stressed out when you return, maybe a little agitated. Researchers looked at cats who were left alone, and found that while the cats didn't display signs of emotionally missing their partner, the cats did seem more stressed and irritated. Sounds about right!

In the end, all cats behave differently, and what they do when you come home depends on their personalities and how you treat them. Not all cats are the same!