Why Does Kate Blame Herself For Jack's Death On 'This Is Us'? For The Same Reason Fans Are Also Now Blaming Her

Major spoilers ahead for the Super Bowl episode of This Is Us (series writing: Kay Oyegun). Kate Pearson has some chips on her shoulder, and they all stem from her dad’s death. That’s the kind of thing that would change a person’s whole life, so that makes sense. And, Kate blames herself for Jack’s death because Jack went back into the family’s burning home in order to fetch her dog. Now that viewers have seen what really happened, fans blame Kate on This Is Us, too.

It’s, of course, not really Kate’s fault that her dad died. It was a horrible, accidental sequence of events that caused Jack’s death — missing batteries for the smoke detector, a faulty slow cooker, and then fire happened and Jack had to get his whole family out (and the dog). That kept him in the fire too long, which affected his lungs, which stressed them out, which caused a massive cardiac episode, which killed him. It is easy for Kate, who was only a teen when Jack’s death happened, to blame herself. It seems like she set it all in motion, even though she didn’t start the fire (no Billy Joel puns intended), and she didn’t actually tell Jack to go into the house and get her dog, and she certainly didn’t make her father have a heart attack. But it’s easy to see how your brain can twist and turn and play tricks. Unfortunately, the people on the Internet are less forgiving.

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Dealing with Kate is so hard because she truly believes that she caused Jack's death. But like I said, Jack felt like he had to go get the dog — Kate never said, "Dad, please go find Louie in the house." He is a good person, and good people rescue their daughter's dog without it needing to be explicitly asked for. Heck, Rebecca asked him not to and he still did! There was no stopping that moving train. Plus, Jack grabbed keepsakes in the house, too. He spent more time in the fire than was necessary to save the dog, anyway.

Fortunately, though, it seems like Kate is finally growing, and she's finally reaching a point where she can let go of some of that pain and anguish surrounding Jack's death. Kate told Toby:

Kate's blaming herself in Jack's death made her self-esteem the lowest, and now that she has Toby, she can believe in herself again. She can believe in herself because she sees herself reflected in Toby, and what Toby sees of Kate is pretty great. Is this all that Kate should do? No — a licensed therapist would probably do wonders for Kate to work through all of her issues with Jack and his death — but recognizing a problem is an important first step in solving that problem.

It's easy for fans to blame Kate for Jack's death because Kate makes it easy to blame her for Jack's death. But even though it's easy, it's not exactly fair. Hopefully, fans will see Kate come into her own a little bit more as This Is Us moves away from the circumstances surrounding Jack's death and more toward the times after Jack's death and the future of the This Is Us Pearson clan now.