Organizing a Feminist Seder: Oranges, Miriam's Cup, and More Ideas For Passover
Passover is all about liberation — originally, the freedom of Israelites from Egyptian slavery, way back in the day. But Passover can also address another kind of liberation: Feminism. From Miriam's Cup ritual, to enjoying an orange on the Seder dinner plate, try these five tips to make this year's get-together a feminist spin on the Passover Seder.
Put an orange on the Seder plate
The myth goes like this: In the early 1980s, Susannah Heschel—a popular Jewish scholar (and feminist)—was giving a talk. Reportedly, as she spoke, an elderly rabbi stood up and declared, "A woman belongs on the bimah like an orange belongs on the seder plate." J Weekly explains:
Either way, pretty cool tradition.
Miriam's Cup Ritual
One very important woman — you guessed right, Miriam — gets special treatment in many feminist seders. This ritual was created in a Boston Rosh Chodesh group in the late 1980s. The Legend of Miriam's Well goes like this: when the Israelites were slacking off and not following the Torah as they should be, their punishment was having water taken away.
Moses was internally conflicted and prayed to God that he could find a way to stand by his duties and help his people at the same time. In a learning moment, God confided in him and gave him advice on being a leader to his flock. To make a longer story short, he also struck a rock and made it flow with water for Moses and his people. (Read a much better synopsis here.)
Somehow, the magical well followed them on their 40 years of traveling and never let them down when it came to providing water. God credited the miracle to prophetess Miriam, and so the water source was aptly named Miriam's Well.
Today, this history can be celebrated through group meditation and drinking from a vessel of water. It's more about the act than the actual vessel, so don't fret if you don't have anything as fancy as the cups above.
Try out a Feminist Haggadah
For those of you who aren't familiar, a "haggadah" is defined as "the text recited at the Seder on the first two nights of the Jewish Passover, including a narrative of the Exodus." It works as a set of prayers meant to lead diners through the Passover seder. Feminist Gal shares a haggadah from a friend that manages to incorporate a few modern additions — like this poem from feminist poet Adrienne Rich:
Freedom. It isn’t once, to walk out
under the Milky Way, feeling the riversof light, the fields of dark—freedom is daily, prose-bound, routineremembering. Putting together, inch by inchthe starry worlds. From all the lost collections.
Help conduct the Seder
An easy way to add a bit of feminist perspective to your Seder is to make sure the women at the table actually help conduct it. Pretty intuitive, but you'd be surprised how often this doesn't tend to happen.
Leave Time For Group Discussion
After all is said and eaten, take some time to have a table discussion of women's role in the Exodus, or to share stories of the influential Jewish women in everyone's lives.
Take it a step further and have everyone bring along a photo of a family heirloom that ties into their Jewish heritage. Who knows — it may bring new ideas and rituals to next year's celebration. Happy Pesach!