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It's A Pleasure

I'm 42 & I've Never Had Sex. Is It Too Late?

Take it one step at a time.

By Sophia Benoit
It's A Pleasure

Should I Be Friends With My Ex If I'm Still Not Over Them?

A post-relationship forced “friendship” can’t change the fact that you wanted different things.

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! My Partner Only Wants Sex Late At Night & Won’t Compromise

Work on ways to make sex more fulfilling for you within their parameters.

By Sophia Benoit
It's A Pleasure

Why Do My Relationships Always End At The Honeymoon Phase?

You can’t make a good relationship with a bad partner. Ever.

By Sophia Benoit
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I Love My Partner But I’m Not Sure I See A Future With Them. Should I Stay?

Don’t be afraid to quit things.

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! I Want To Sleep Around More But I'm Anxious About Having Sex.

If you want a Samantha Jones life, you can have it.

By Sophia Benoit
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Help! I Don’t Feel Desirable Anymore — Is My Sex Life Doomed?

Consider this a great opportunity.

By Sophia Benoit
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I Want To Start Dating Again But I'm In A Funk. How Can I Get Out Of It?

It’s all about baby steps.

By Sophia Benoit
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Do People Generally Prefer Longer Sex?

If there’s one thing humans love to do, it’s compare ourselves to others sexually.

By Sophia Benoit
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I Have A Huge Crush On A Jerk & I Can’t Get Past It

Crushes are made of small moments that we read way too much into.

By Sophia Benoit
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How Can I Hint To My Partner I Want To Spice It Up In Bed?

This is not the time for sublety.

By Sophia Benoit
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I've Only Had One Long-Term Relationship. Am I Missing Out?

This problem is as old as time.

By Sophia Benoit
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How Do I Tell My Partner That I Want To Try New Things In Bed?

It's totally fair to feel like things have plateaued after a while with one person.

By Sophia Benoit
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So, How Hot Should My Dating App Photos Actually Be?

It’s not your job to manage anyone’s expectations.

By Sophia Benoit
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Um, How Do I Explain Purity Culture To My Partner?

Think about which beliefs you’re trying to challenge, and which you now easily reject.

By Sophia Benoit
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My Wife Sends Hot Pics To Her Other Partners, But Won’t Share Them With Me

ENM relationships are a little like playing a video game on hard mode.

By Sophia Benoit