11 Weird Things That Happen To Your Body When You're Angry
Anger is a healthy emotion, and one that we tend to feel, to one degree or another, on a daily basis. Sometimes it's just a quick flash, like when someone cuts you off in traffic. And other times it can turn into a full blown rage fest, where you hardly recognize yourself. Either way, just like other strong emotions — like sadness or joy — anger can do some weird things to your body.
"When someone is angry there are actual physical and mental changes taking place in your body," psychologist Dr. Michele Barton, director of clinical health at Psychology Life Well, tells Bustle. "You're releasing different hormones and neurotransmitters and many more than usual, so the body is overwhelmed with adrenaline and other chemicals that create the rush that people feel physically when they're angry. These chemicals also affect your brain, so your brain acts differently than it usually does when those different chemicals and hormones aren't present."
Again, the occasional bout of anger is perfectly healthy. But if it's particularly intense, or you're perpetually upset, it can be detrimental. "The effects on the body are very similar to those for people experiencing anxiety over the long-term," Barton says. "All of the changes that take place in your body when you're angry are meant to be for a short-term. When the anger persists longer than that, these changes start to affect your all organs, digestion, sleep, mood, and the list goes on and on." Below, a few weird ways anger can affect your body, both in the short- and long-term, as well as what to do if you think you might have an anger problem.
1. Your "Warning Bells" Go Off
Again, anger isn't inherently a bad thing; it's just a "warning signal" from the body that something's off. "Anger is often responsible for letting us know when our boundaries have been crossed, when our values are at risk, or when we are not being true to ourselves," consultant and coach Dr. Barbara Cox tells Bustle. That's a big reason why it's a healthy emotion to have, as well as one you need to pay attention to.
2. You Can Turn Into A Different Person
Have you ever been so mad you lost touch with yourself for a minute? "Anger is a highly physiological emotion," says clinical psychologist Dr. Joshua Klapow. "There are so many changes going on when we are angry that we literally become a different person — if only temporarily — if we are angry enough. Adrenalin rushes through our body causing us to feel strong and ready to act. We very much go from 'normal' to an 'Incredible Hulk' state."
3. Your Blood Pressure Increases
As part of this altered physiological state, Klapow tells me your heart rate will increase and your blood will start pumping to your head — which explains why some people get red in the face. Your breathing can also become shallow as you enter a "fight-or-flight" response.
4. Your Reflexes & Core Muscles Engage
Since there's the "fight" part of the fight-or-flight response, your body will kick into high gear, preparing to fend off enemies. "We reflexively position ourselves for 'battle' by clenching fists, jaws, tightening our abdomen, and core," says Klapow.
5. You Become Hyper-Focused
Again, anger is closely related to the well-known fight-or-flight response, which we often associate with stress or fear. "Anger works the same way," Klapow says. "Our body is preparing to fight."
As a result, our ability to process complex info decreases, resulting in a sort of fugue state. "We see the world through a filter of anger and we may have a very difficult time actually understanding, hearing, or interpreting other people," he says. "We become single focused and single purpose."
6. Your Digestion Slows Way Down
When your super mad, the body decides it's simply not the time for digestion, and thus slows the process down. "All of these changes are a result of your fight or flight system kicking in," Barton says.
7. You Can Forget Stuff
As counselor Rebecca Frank MA, LPCC, NCC tells me, anger causes a rush of hormones to be released in your brain, including cortisol. That's OK in the short-term, but if you're angry every single day, it can start to affect your brain.
"Elevated cortisol kills neurons in the hippocampus, which is where we create memories," Frank says. "This disrupts the creation of new memories and suppresses activity in the hippocampus, which weakens short-term memory. It also prevents you from forming new memories properly. That's why highly stressful situation are harder to remember."
8. You Can Fall Into A Pattern
As Frank says, "Too much cortisol will decrease serotonin — that’s the hormone that makes you happy. A decrease in serotonin can make you feel anger and pain more easily, as well as increase aggressive behavior and lead to depression." And that can carve out a pattern in your mind, over time.
"Every situation that we respond to starts to form patterns in the brain and when those patterns are reinforced by the same reaction every time, it makes it easier and more likely that we will revert back to anger in most situations, even ones that it don't make sense."
9. You Can Get Sick
As Frank tells me, strong or ongoing anger can also wear you down physically. "It affects your immune system" she says. "The more stressed out and angry you are the more likely you are to get sick."
10. You Can Literally "See Red"
Remember what I was saying about blood flowing your head? "Some individuals actually 'see red,' as blood flow in the capillaries of the eyes increases," says Bernard Golden, anger management specialist and author of Overcoming Destructive Anger: Strategies That Work. "This may be a reaction with intense rage as the 'fight-flight' response escalates."
11. You Can Get Sweaty & Shaky
Again, due to that ol' fight-or-flight response, you might notice other physical goings on. "Sweating occurs so that we don’t overheat," licensed psychotherapist Alisa Kamis-Brinda, LCSW, LCADC, owner of Serenity Solutions, LLC, tells Bustle. "We shake or experience tension in our muscles due to increases of oxygen." This can even lead to tension headaches, as well as nausea.
So, what does an anger problem look like? One aspect of it includes responding to upset in an over-the-top way. As Frank says, "Unhealthy types of anger come out in the form of outburst, shutting down, explosive yelling, isolation, and psychical behavior." You might also suppress your anger, which isn't great, either.
If you think you're dealing with an anger problem, definitely chat with a therapist. He or she can help you figure out how to better manage your emotions, so you can preserve your health and handle stressful situations in a more reasonable way.
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