23 Sexy Gifts To Get Yourself This Year

With the holidays basically here, there's a lot of pressure to finish up your holiday shopping. You're probably thinking about everyone on your list — friends, family, and maybe even co-workers — but it's important to make sure that you're showing yourself some love as well. It can be a stressful, hectic time, so make sure that you're fitting in a little self-care. Maybe it's taking some time to decompress, maybe it's doing your favorite activity, or maybe it's just getting yourself a special little something. And what's more special than a sexy gift for yourself?

Normally we think of sexy gifts as being reserved for a significant other, but whether you're single or paired up, it's so crucial to be treating yourself and your own sexual well-being with just as much care you would for a partner. And let's be honest, sex toys can be very pricy, so you probably don't treat yourself to them often enough. That's why the holiday season, when you're buying gifts anyway, is such a good opportunity to spend some money on yourself as well.

If you're looking to pamper yourself this holiday season, here are a range of sexy gift ideas — for a range of budgets and interests — just for you.


Bean By Unbound

Bean Vibrator, $29, Unbound

It's got six levels of vibrations to provide you all the feels, but it's still unassuming and fits in the palm of your hand. You can use it anywhere and you can take it anywhere. Come on, you deserve it.


Crave Vesper

Crave Vesper, $79, Babeland

It's half necklace, half vibrator, and it's naughty in all the right ways.


Lovehoney BASICS Powerful Pocket Clitoral Vibrator

Lovehoney BASICS Powerful Pocket Clitoral Vibrator, $9.99, Lovehoney

A clitoral vibrator can be a woman's best friend — and with these interchangeable heads you'll have hours of a BFF.


Venus Necklace

Venus Necklace, $23, Unbound

If you're just feeling yourself and all the ladies around you this year, own it with this Venus necklace. It's all about female empowerment.


Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lube

Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lube, $14.99, Lovehoney

A good lube can change everything, and this paraben-free option is perfect for using solo or with a partner.


Pussy Playballs

Pussy Playballs, $25, Unbound

You know you should be doing your kegels, and these four differently weighted balls in a special holder might just make you actually do them.


Stella Massage Oil

Stella Massage Oil, $29.50, Lovelife

A nice body lotion or massage oil is great way to treat yourself. Take some time to give yourself a foot rub or just slather yourself in luxury after a shower. This oil is about as sexy as it comes.


Arousal Gel Box

Arousal Gel Box, $18, Unbound

Unbound's boxes are always a treasure chest of gifts — and this one is all about the intensity. If you've never tried arousal gels before, here's your chance to see what they can do for you.


Lovehoney BASICS Vibrating Rabbit Cock

Lovehoney BASICS Vibrating Rabbit Cock, $14.99, Lovehoney

If your sex life ever feels lackluster because of a lack of clitoral stimulation, this is a great gift to give yourself to make penetrative sex so much more stimulating. It's cheap, cheerful, and gets the job done.


Babe Box

Babe Box, $80, Unbound

The Babe line from Unbound is a total winner. It's a line of a toys that are affordable and accessible for newbies. No item is over a $100 and many of them come in at under $30, which is a bargain for quality sex toys. This box comes with some of the best from the line, including a clit vibrator, tickler, and dildo.The whole collection is worth checking out.



Vibease, $119, Amazon

A toy that you can sync to your phone so it vibrates along with the dirty parts from your favorite books? Yes. A thousand times yes.


210th Shower Cream

210th Shower Cream, $34, Unbound

What makes this shower cream sexy? Well, you could say it's the amazing scent or its moisturizing powers, but it actually has "a hidden seductive assignment" behind the QR code. What's a "seductive assignment"? Well, you'll just have to scan and see.


Bondage In A Box

Bondage in a Box, $25, Babeland

You've read 50 Shades of Grey and want to give it a try, but you're not sure how? This is the perfect introduction.


Massage Candle

Massage Candle, $6-$16, Babeland

A nice candle burning can make a night on your own feel luxurious, but this one that also works as massage oil does double duty if you have a guest.


'Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex'

Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex, $25, Babeland

The folks at Babeland, one of my favorite sex toy retailers, know their way around sex. If you're looking for stronger orgasms, treat yourself to their guide.


MysteryVibe Crescendo

Crescendo, $179, MysteryVibe

This is one of my favorite toys. The Crescendo from MysteryVibe not only has six very powerful motors, but it's bendable. You can twist it to fit your shape, focus on G-Spot or clitoral stimulation, and have tons of fun experimenting.


Cleo Bangle Handcuffs

Cleo Bangle Handcuffs, $40, Unbound

Jewelry and kink combine in this bracelet that can double as a sex toy. Wear it as jewelry now and for playtime later, because these handcuffs can do both.


What's In Your Box?

What's In Your Box, From $18/month, What's In Your Box?

This is a fun subscription box that aims to to remove the stigma around sex, which sounds pretty great to me. The box can have anything in it related to sexuality and women's health, from condoms and vibrators to balms, probiotics, soaps, and more — so expect something totally new and different each month.


OhMiBod blueMotion Remote Vibrator

OhMiBod blueMotion Remote Vibrator, $129, Babeland

Not only can you sync this vibrator to your smartphone, but you can sync it with your favorite music or even a voice recording. It's a truly customizable vibe.



Fin, $75, Unbound

This fingertip vibrator is easy to wear and seamless to use for a solo session or to spice things up with someone else.


Naturalove Organic Lubricant

Naturalove Organic Lubricant, $10.99, SystemJo

Go green with this lube made from aloe and acai berries, which feels amazing while being safe to use with latex condoms, silicone toys, or any other way you like.


Original Magic Wand

Original Magic Wand, $59.95, Babeland

It's been a bestseller for over 30 years — and with good reason. It's a powerful, effective vibe, and you can always pass it off as a neck massager.


Future Is Female Sweatshirt

Future Is Female Sweatshirt, $25, Unbound

There's nothing sexier than empowerment.

Just because it's the holiday season, doesn't mean it's all about everyone else. Make sure to treat yourself as well — and a sexy present always does the trick.