6 Ways Women Masturbate That You Might Not Know About

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When you think of female masturbation, you might picture manual stimulation, or perhaps a vibrator. But there are actually many, many more ways women masturbate that are just as valid — and just as fun. Some women feel ashamed if they masturbate in a way that's not typically talked about, but these techniques aren't as unusual as people think.

Many ways women masturbate "are not typically depicted in porn (and many preclude penetration), so we may not consider them 'sexy,'" Astroglide's resident sexologist Dr. Jess O'Reilly, tells Bustle. "But ultimately, there is nothing sexier than that from which you derive sexual pleasure, so you do you and don’t worry about what others are doing. It doesn’t matter how you indulge in pleasure or how you reach orgasm — physically or mentally. There is no right or wrong way."

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin, creator of Finishing School, an online orgasm course for women, agrees that women masturbate in a "dazzling" variety of ways. "Female masturbation doesn't get talked about very openly, but I think it's truly amazing to learn about all of the different ways that women can experience pleasure," she tells Bustle. "Plus, most women tend to think that the way they masturbate is 'weird' or 'unusual,' so hearing about ways that other women masturbate can help us all feel less alone."

Here are some ways women masturbate that are more common than you might realize.