When I first got into a long-distance relationship, I thought I'd be a pro at having cyber sex. I'm not afraid to talk about sex, so it should be easy, right? Wrong. I had no clue what to say or do, and everything I tried just felt super cheesy.
I'd like to say I've made some improvements since, but months later, I stick suck at it. My partner and I repeat the same things over and over to each other, and all they basically amount to is "I like having sex with you." On top of that, the view of myself on-cam makes me way self-conscious. I usually have to turn off the video and keep the conversation to a bare minimum if I'm going to relax enough to have any chance of finishing. And toward that end, I usually have to resort to a toy.