If These Are The 7 Worst Fights You And Your Partner Have, You're Doing Just Fine

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Fighting with your partner never feels good. Any kind of disharmony in your relationship, especially in the early stages, can put you into panic mode and lead you to question whether or not your relationship is going to last. But, even the healthiest relationships go through their fair share of squabbles. No matter how often you argue, experts say fights with your partner are totally OK as long as you still feel positively about your partner and your relationship.

Despite knowing that fighting can be healthy and productive, it's hard to think your relationship is in a good place when it's happening. Sure, that may be true if it happens all the time. But as Rosalind Sedacca, CLC, Dating and Relationship Coach, tells Bustle, there's a major difference between fights that you should worry about and ones you really shouldn't.

"If you still feel appreciated, respected and loved in your relationship despite disagreements, your relationship is doing well," Sedacca says. Chances are, your partner probably feels that way, too. Without mutual appreciate, respect and love, "a relationship is a facade and subject to painful fighting, emotional emptiness and sabotage," she says.

So if these are the worst fights you and your partner have, experts say there's no need to worry. Your relationship is doing just fine.