The 11 Best Places To Take An Introvert On A Date, According To Experts

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If you’re an extrovert, you probably feed off the energy of other people, having them around you as much as possible. But what happens when you start dating an introvert? When an extrovert and introvert pair up, it can actually be the best of both worlds. However, some places are better than others when it comes to where to take an introvert on a date.

“In actuality, where to go really requires a conversation between the two of you as to what places fuel you both (beyond the more group setting for extroverts and quiet setting for introverts),” Susan Golicic, PhD, Certified Relationship Coach and co-founder of Uninhibited Wellness, tells Bustle. She says compromising is key — for instance, going to a quiet dinner first, then somewhere more extrovert-friendly. That way, you’ll both get what you need.

David Bennett, counselor and relationship expert with Double Trust Dating, agrees. “Introverts are going to feel more comfortable in lower-key settings where they can get to know their dates on a more one-on-one basis,” he tells Bustle. “They require less emotional and social energy and, this way, they won’t have the pressure of being around large groups or interacting with a lot of new people.”

All that said, if you’re looking for the best place to take an introvert on a date, look no further than what the experts below have to say.