The Best Sex Advice, According To 13 Experts

For the most part, sex is pretty damn enjoyable. No matter how long you've been having sex for, there's always a way to have better sex. Whether it’s through getting into the spirit of the season and testing out holiday-inspired positions or finding new places to get it on, we are constantly looking for ways to make it hotter. I mean, there’s a reason why checkout stands are filled with magazine covers featuring the 101 best sex positions you need to try. We’re always on the lookout for the best pieces of sex advice we can get.

Personally, sex advice isn’t exactly something I openly seek though. While I have no problem going to my mom, my sister, or my best friends for love and relationship advice, going to them for tips on how to make a blow job more enjoyable isn’t really up there on my to-do list. So, thank goodness, we have experts to lean on

From sexologists to adult performers, former escorts to a sex therapist with a cannabis twist, I talked to 14 experts in the field of sexuality to find out the best piece of sex advice they can give. Here’s what they had to say:

1. Amy Jo Goddard, Sexual Empowerment Expert And Author of Woman On Fire: 9 Elements To Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power And Sexual Intelligence

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2. Casey Calvert, Adult Performer And Official BDSM And Fetish Expert For GameLink

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3. Jessica Drake, Sex Educator And Creator Of Jessica Drake's Guide To Wicked Sex

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4. Brooke Christian, Founder Of Flirty Girl

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5. Bonnie Gayle, Body Liberator And Founder Of Sex Butter

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6. Shahin Ghadir, Fertility Specialist And Co-Founder Of The Southern California Reproductive Center

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7. Dr. Jess, Astroglide's Resident Sexologist

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8. Dr. Fran Walfish, Beverly Hills Relationship Psychotherapist And Co-Star Of Sex Box On WE tv

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9. Katie Wells George, VSPOT Executive Gynecologist

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10. Nicole Contos, Owner Of Smooth Synergy Spa In NYC

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11. Jessica Brighton, Former Escort Turned Relationship Coach And Founder Of Satisfy Your Man

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12. Nikki Martinez, Psychologist And Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor

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13. Jordan Tishler, Sexuality Therapist And Cannabis Physician

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Ed. Note: A previous version of this story included quotes from comedian Billy Procida, which have since been removed.

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