11 Best Bluetooth Sex Toys Your Partner Can Control From Afar


Five years go, the idea of having a sex toy controlled from afar may have given you futuristic, sex-robot vibes. But now, you don't even need to be in the same room, let alone the same city, for you and your partner to enjoy sex toys together. If you're in the mood for a little excitement, but can't physically be with your SO at this time, the best bluetooth controlled sex toys are the way to start cultivating your pleasure. So, let's talk a little about how they work.

Angela Watson, a sex therapist who reviews sex toys with her husband at Doctor Climax, tells Bustle According to Angela Watson, a sex therapist who reviews sex toys with her husband at Doctor Climax, bluetooth toys are controlled via smartphone or tablet, and have much more control over features, like the speed of vibration and the settings.

If you've ever struggled with the speed button on a sex toy, you'll know the unique pain of things not working as planned. Smartphone apps typically give the user much more control and allow you to have a more tailored masturbation experience.

"Since Bluetooth sex toys are controlled typically via smartphone app," Watson tells Bustle, "anyone with a smartphone can control your toy, it doesn't have to be you. This allows you to hand the controls over to a partner and allows them to control your orgasm." It's perfect for keeping things hot when you're in a long-distance relationship.

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The Lovense Max + Nora Combo

"These two toys are great on their own but where they really shine is while connected with one another," Watson says. They connect via Bluetooth or Wifi and can be controlled via app or they can also be controlled by moving the opposing toy.

The airpumps and vibration of the Max can be controlled by the moving speed and vibration speed of the Nora, while the rotating motion and vibration of the Nora can be controlled by the speed of thrusting into the Max.

"The Lovense Nora is a rabbit vibrator which is quite popular and has many raving fans," Watson says. "It's an automatic masturbator which uses air pumps to stimulate a penis."

As far as rabbit vibrators go for oneself, the Nora is Watson's favorite. It does a fantastic job of stimulating your clit and g-spot at the same time, which feels, she says, "tremendous."

The Lovense Lush 2

The Lush 2 has a stronger vibration, making it all the better. According to Watson, this bluetooth egg vibrator improves on many of the biggest complaints users had of the original model, like not having a strong enough vibration. "The Lush 2 is a wearable vibrator, and the Lovense app makes controlling the toy very easy," Watson says.

The Kiiroo Onyx 2 + Pearl 2 Combo

The Kiiroo Onyx 2 is one of the most popular automatic masturbators, Watson says.

It has 10 rings inside the toy that contract and expand to mimic the sensation of a blowjob for those with a penis.

"The toy can sync to pornographic content to mimic what's being performed within a particular video," Watson says.

The Pearl 2 is a standard bluetooth vibrator, which is great on its own but much better when used in conjunction with the Onyx 2, Watson says. The Pearl 2 can be stroked to control the Onyx 2, and the Onyx 2 can also be used to control the Pearl 2. It'll be like you're there with one another.

OhMiBod Krush

This is a great G-spot vibrator that can truly be controlled from anywhere in the world. Your lover could be talking dirty to you in Brazil while you're home in Tulsa, OK. This has three speeds and four vibration patterns and is super easy to use alone or with someone else.

It really does give the LDR so many new possibilities, doesn't it?

The We-Vibe Sync

We-Vibe has a variety of products that can be controlled via bluetooth, and this Sync is a delightful toy that stimulates both the G-spot and the clitoris.

It can also fit your body and is adjustable because all bodies are different! It also makes it a lot easier to change positions, so the possibilities for pleasure are pretty darn endless.

Bloom by We-Vibe

We-Vibe really pulls out the possibilities when it comes to bluetooth control, and that even includes strengthening your pelvic floor muscles.

Yup, the dream is real, and exercise can be seriously pleasurable. Imagine doing reps until you orgasm? That's the reality here, people. The vibrations are all controlled via app, so you, or even a partner, can get all kegel boot camp instructor.

MysteryVibe Crescendo

This sex toy is particularly special, as it is an adaptable vibrator so you can figure out all the shapes and patterns that make you most pleased. There are a healthy six speeds and patterns, and it can all be controlled via a Mystery Vibe app.

It's also "universal and unisex" and is perfect for singles, couples, and all genders and orientations.

Motor Bunny And Link Bluetooth Bundle

There is the possibility of going really next level with this — and it doesn't come cheap. This piece, called the Motor Bunny, is a very well-reviewed, straddle-style "personal pleasure machine" that has so many different types of attachments and vibration possibilities. Yes, it's controllable via app, so the experience can all feel wonderfully out of your control. Despite the price tag, reviewers say run don't walk when it comes to investing in one of these.

Ohmibod Wearable Vibrator

Yes, the fact that it's wearable means you can wear this Ohmibod vibrator anywhere. You could be driving, waiting for a plane, or in line at the grocery store. To those around you, it may look like you're scrolling through Instagram, when in reality, you're controlling the vibes of a very sensational experience. Or perhaps you can keep it on and wait for a partner to surprise you.

Hush By Lovense

Of course, there is always the butt plug to try long distance! Lovense has a great one called the Hush, a 1.5 or a 1.75-inch plug, which they claim to be the most powerful butt plug on the market! You or your partner can vibe on a powerful three speeds for up to two hours of good times with this toy, which they've also designed to be both easy to insert and easy to remove.

Lovense Domi Wand Vibrator

The Domi looks like the most classic of vibrators, and it is, except for the fact that it can be controlled from afar and can even sync to music. Think of all the songs you can climax in time with, while using this magnificent wand! The unlimited vibration patterns are another thing that make this updated classic a real winner.


Angela Watson. sex therapist at Doctor Climax.