For many people, finding "The One" is pretty close to the top of their list of priorities. In a society that puts such emphasis on love and being in a relationship, it's hard to escape the pressures of not just feeling like you "should" couple up, but "should" be coupled up with your absolute soulmate. But how do we even know when we've met "The One?" It's not as though they show up at our door with a neon sign flashing over their head. Also, is there really only one person — out of the 7.6 billion people in the world — for you? If so, then we really have our work cut out for us, if we want to find them.
"For most of us we have multiple soulmates in one lifetime that are brought into our lives for learning and healing," Natalie Miles, psychic medium and spiritual guide, tells Bustle. "So it doesn’t matter if you’re with someone for three weeks, three months, three years or 30 years, you were supposed to experience that special deep soul connection with them for that time frame."
But if you have your heart set on meeting "The One," whether it's for the short-term or the long-term, these six tips will help bring them into your life, according to Miles.