If you're in the mood for a little excitement, but can't physically be with your partner right now, why not gift yourselves with one or two of the
best Bluetooth controlled sex toys? These nifty gadgets are becoming the go-to answer for couples who want to feel close — and keep their sex life alive — even while far apart.
That said, "Bluetooth controlled toy" does give off a slightly odd, sex-robot vibe. So if you haven't tried one just yet, let's talk a little bit about how they work. According to
Angela Watson, a sex therapist who reviews sex toys with her husband at Doctor Climax, you navigate them via an app, where you and your partner can choose from different vibration speeds, sync to music, and have fun with various other futuristic options.
sex toys are controlled via a smartphone app, Watson tells Bustle, you can hand the job over to your partner, so they can help you orgasm — almost like they were actually by your side. For an extra layer of sexiness, don't forget to call on a video chat, so you can see each other's facial expressions. It'll be the perfect way to keep things spicy — and help you feel more connected — even when you're in a long-distance relationship.
Ready to vibrate each other from your respective apartments? Then check out the
top-tier toy recommendations below. 1 Lovense Max + Nora Combo
These two sex toys connect through Bluetooth or WiFi, Watson says, and can be controlled via an app or by moving the opposing toy.
In other words, the vibration of the Max is affected by the movement speed and vibration of the Nora, while the rotating motion and vibration of the Nora can be controlled by the speed of thrusting into the Max.
The Nora is a rabbit-style vibrator, which Nora says does a fantastic job of
stimulating your clit and g-spot at the same time. 2 Lovense Lush 2
If you want a stronger vibration, Watson says, go for the Lush 2. It's something you can use by yourself, discreetly out in public — which could be fun the next time your partner visits — or from afar via
the Lovense app.
It features unlimited vibration patterns, sound activated vibrations, and you can even sync it to music. How fun is that?
3 Kiiroo Onyx 2 + Pearl 2 Combo
The Kiiroo Onyx 2 is one of the most popular automatic masturbators, Watson says. It features 10 rings inside the toy that contract and expand to give the sensation of a blowjob, for those with a penis. You can even sync it to pornographic content, she says, to mimic what's being performed within a particular video.
Meanwhile, the Pearl 2 is a standard vibrator, which is fun to use on its own, but much better when used in conjunction with the Onyx 2, Watson says. The Pearl 2 can be stroked to control the Onyx 2, and the Onyx 2 can also be used to control the Pearl 2.
It'll feel like your partner is right there with you.
4 OhMiBod Krush
This is a
great g-spot vibrator that can be controlled from anywhere in the world, meaning your partner could be talking dirty to you from Brazil while you're at home in Tulsa, OK. It really does give the LDR so many new possibilities, doesn't it? 5 We-Vibe Sync Aqua
We-Vibe offers a variety of products that can be controlled via Bluetooth, including the Sync Aqua. This particular toy gives you and your partner access to "deep powerful vibrations."
All you have to do is hop on
the We-Connect app, to feel like you're both in the same room. 6 Bloom by We-Vibe
We-Vibe really pulls out the possibilities when it comes to Bluetooth control, and that even includes strengthening your pelvic floor muscles.
Imagine doing reps until you orgasm? That's the reality here, people. The vibrations are all controlled via app, so your partner can act as your kegel bootcamp instructor.
7 MysteryVibe Crescendo
This sex toy is particularly special. Since it's an adaptable vibrator, you can figure out all the shapes and patterns that give you the most pleasure. It offers a healthy six speeds and patterns, and it can all be controlled via the
Mystery Vibe app.
It's also "universal and unisex" meaning it's perfect for singles, couples, and all genders and orientations.
8 Motor Bunny And Link Bluetooth Bundle
The Motor Bunny is a straddle-style "personal pleasure machine" that can really
take your long-distance sex life to the next level. It has so many different types of attachments and vibration possibilities, you might even forget you're in an LDR.
The only trouble is it doesn't come cheap — but it might just be worth the splurge, according to its rave reviews.
9 Ohmibod Wearable Vibrator
Yes, the fact that it's wearable means you can take this Ohmibod vibrator anywhere. You could lying in bed, walking down the street, or waiting in line at the grocery store.
To those around you, it may look like you're simply scrolling through Instagram, when in reality you're getting off — or gettin your partner off.
10 Hush By Lovense
If you'd like to really spice things up, why not try a long-distance butt plug? Lovense has a great one called the Hush, which comes in either 1.5 or 1.75-inch sizes. Using their app, you can customize a wide range of vibration levels.
11 Lovense Domi Wand Vibrator
The Domi 2 looks like the most classic of vibrators, and it is, except for the fact that it can be controlled from afar. This is another toy that can sync to music, which adds that extra layer of connectedness for you and your partner.
Think of all the songs you can climax to!
Expert: Angela Watson, sex therapist
Get Even More From Bustle — Sign Up For The Newsletter
From hair trends to relationship advice, our daily newsletter has everything you need to sound like a person who’s on TikTok, even if you aren’t.
This article was originally published on
Dec. 10, 2019