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7 Sex Toys To Give Your Relationship This Xmas

by Amanda Chatel

With the brilliant innovations of sex toys for couples becoming all the rage, it’s time, if you haven’t already, to join in on the fun. Globally, sex toys are a $15 million business, which means that if you’re skeptical about bringing a sex toy into your relationship, just look at the figures. You think you’re alone in purchasing a sex toy? Hells no.

Because women have been using vibrators and dildos during masturbation for quite some time, it only made sense that eventually some sex toy companies would come up with the brilliant idea of creating a toy that both partners could use and equally enjoy during sex. What this means is that sex toys are meant to be shared, and if sharing is caring, then there’s no greater gift to give your relationship like a sex toy that both you and your partner can enjoy.

But while there are many sex toys for couples that are now on the market, not all of them deliver the pleasure you and your partner deserve. As someone who knows a thing or two about sex toys, couples toys, and otherwise, I present you a roundup of sex toys worth investing in for your relationship and your sex life.

1. Eva

When it comes to sex toys that both you and your partner can equally enjoy, couples toy Eva definitely gets my ringing endorsement. Thanks to its moveable wings, Eva fits in place over the clit and tucks under the labia, making it hands-free. During intercourse, it provides three levels of vibration for both partners, and for women who need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, it’s a total winner.

Eva, $105

2. We-Vibe 4 Plus

Another vibrator that I’ve fallen in love with is We-Vibe 4 Plus. This particular toy is great in a few ways. For starters, its U-shape allows it to be worn during intercourse, providing the perfect amount of vibrations against the clitoris. Secondly, its app allows you and your partner to play when you’re apart, too. No matter where your partner is in the world, as long as they have cell reception, there’s fun to be had.

We-Vibe 4 Plus, $179

3. Sharevibe

Staying true to its name, sex toy Sharevibe is all about sharing. The Sharevibe is made so one partner can wear the dildo while the longer shaft can be penetrated into the vagina. Although a harness is optional, it’s not necessary and provides five speeds of vibration magic.

Sharevibe, $130

4. Under The Bed Restraints

For the couple that loves to restrain each other, but want to evolve past scarves and ties, there are under the bed restraints to do just that. They’re easy to connect and discreet enough so you can always keep them attached, so you don’t have to go running to get them when the mood to dominate and play submissive arises. I mean, who wants to stop all the fun and go looking for restraints? Not me, that’s for sure.

Under the Bed Restraints, $58.00

5. Babeland Duet Cock Ring

I realize that not everyone is into cock rings, but when it vibrates, you really can’t lose. Not only do the two vibrators on the Babeland Duet Cock Ring provide vibrations for both partners, but the elastic material of the actual ring won’t make your partner feel like they’re slipping into some scary archaic gadget that was once used as a torture device. Also, cock rings do tend to help men last longer, so that’s an extra bonus if you have a male partner.

Babeland Duet Cock Ring, $45

6. Clone-A-Willy Kit

Before you laugh, here me out: If your partner has a penis, wouldn’t it be ideal to have a vibrating version of it when they're not around? I would think “yes” would be the answer. The Clone-a-Willy Kit lets both you and your partner get all crafty while cloning their “willy,” making for great foreplay, and then you get to enjoy the results as much as you want when you’re partner is at work, away, asleep, in the shower… you know, ALL THE TIME.

Clone-a-Willy Kit, $31.50

7. Moregasm Set

For those who want to splurge, I present the Moregasm Set. It is THE couples sex toy, or rather toys, to have. The kit has everything you and your partner could possibly want from lube to a butt plug, and Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. Sure, it’s a little bit on the pricey side, but considering everything it has to offer, it’s worth every cent; pretty much making it the definitive toy to give your relationship.

Moregasm Set, $288

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