Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and writer who helps people stop feeling embarrassed and start having more fun in the bedroom. She studied human sexuality at Brown University and has been featured in publications like The New York Times, Real Simple, CNN, O, The Oprah Magazine, and The Times of London. Whether in her work coaching clients one-on-one over email and video chat, or through her online sex education programs like The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, she finds immense joy in helping people discover (or rediscover!) their spark. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com with all the questions you’ve been dying to ask.

Latest Articles

How To Figure Out How You Really Feel About Casual Sex

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Is Your Partner Uncomfortable With Receiving?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Talking To Your Partner About Sex Toys Can Be Complicated

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Should You Be Worried If Your Partner Likes Rough Sex?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

What Should You Do If Your Partner Can't Orgasm & Blames You For It?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Should You Open Your Relationship If You Have Another Crush?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Make It Clear You're A Lesbian

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Use A Vibrator For The First Time

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How Long Should It Take To Orgasm?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Do You Get Distracted During Sex? Here's How To Focus

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Is Crying After Sex Normal?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Talk To A New Partner About Your Sexual Assault

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

What To Do If Your Partner Orgasms Too Quickly

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

9 Questions Every Couple Should Answer Before They Get Married

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

What To Do When You Like Someone More Than They Like You

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Sext If Your Partner Is Way More Into It

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Help Your Partner Feel Sexy Again

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Cowgirl Sex Tips For A Partner In A Wheelchair

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Unrealistic Sexual Expectations Women Have Of Men

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Signs You Have An Unhealthy Relationship With Love

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

The 7 Best Exercise Positions

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

The Best Positions To Try With Another Couple

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

The 8 Best Positions For Breast Stimulation

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

8 Dominant Positions For Women

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Can You Prepare For Sex With Women?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Stop Fighting About Sexual Frequency

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Try Edging For The First Time

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

What To Do When Someone Pushes You Away

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Control Your Anger During A Fight

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Is Being Vanilla A Deal-Breaker?

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Take A Break From Non-Monogamy

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Why Being Friends With Exes Isn't A Betrayal

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Prevent Distracting Thoughts During Sex

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

17 Types Of Verbal Abuse To Watch Out For

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Stimulate His P-Spot

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Talk About Grooming With Your Partner

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Use A Toy With Your Partner

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

How To Explore Cuckolding

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

13 Sexy Dom/Sub Games To Play

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin

Plus Tips For Bringing The Kissing Back

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desir...
By Vanessa Marin