Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and writer who helps people stop feeling embarrassed and start having more fun in the bedroom. She studied human sexuality at Brown University and has been featured in publications like The New York Times, Real Simple, CNN, O, The Oprah Magazine, and The Times of London. Whether in her work coaching clients one-on-one over email and video chat, or through her online sex education programs like The Modern Man’s Guide To Conquering Performance Pressure and Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, she finds immense joy in helping people discover (or rediscover!) their spark. Head over to with all the questions you’ve been dying to ask.

Do You Get Distracted During Sex? Here's How To Focus

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has…
By Vanessa Marin