How To Tell You’re Not In Love Anymore

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As much as falling in love can come as a surprise, so can falling out of it. So if you're feeling a strange distance from your partner, it can be tempting to look for the signs of falling out of love. And while only you can answer the important emotional questions, sex and relationship experts have fortunately come up with some concrete ways to tell if you're losing your love connection, just by looking at the physical signs.

Falling in love is such an amazing feeling that can turn your life completely around," relationship expert and founder of Lori Bizzoco tells Bustle. "Unfortunately, for many of us out there, that love doesn’t last forever like we hope it will." And when it starts to fade, we have to be honest with ourselves about where to go from there.

Sometimes, you have to look at subtle physical signs because your mind isn't ready to wrap around the loss of losing your love for someone. "When you first fall in love you never think it would eventually come to this point," Love Rehab Guru and author of Red Flags Run, Ashley W. Gillett, tells Bustle. "... [But] there is nothing you can do to salvage the relationship [when] the memories are there but the in love factor is not.” So be honest with yourself — it's the best way to heal.

Here are nine physical signs you're not in love anymore, according to experts.