Sara Altschule is a Writer and Relationship Expert. Sara received her Master's in Counseling Psychology with the goal of helping others in the dating and love department. She is on a mission, one heart at a time. Sara is a Blush Life Coach and would love to help you with any of your relationship, dating, and/or life needs. Click the link above to get in touch with her.
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11 Ways To Be A Better Friend Today

I think we probably all consider ourselves good friends, and most of us would probably be right. Maybe you've been gifted a BFF friendship bracelet, or been told you're the best friend anyone could ask for. But there's always room for improvement. Th…
By Sara Altschule

Things To Prepare Yourself For After A Breakup

The tricky thing about a breakup is you can never 100 percent prepare yourself for one. Often times, you don't even it's coming, let alone know how to deal with the aftermath. A heartbreak is hard enough, so knowing how to prepare yourself for after …
By Sara Altschule

Signs You Have A Wall Up In Your Relationship

Life can be pretty rough at any age, and by the time most people have hit their twenties, they've experienced some pretty harsh realities. So it makes sense to have some walls up in a relationship at one time or another. Everyone has baggage, and som…
By Sara Altschule

Signs Your Relationship Is Off To A Bad Start

You start dating someone for a couple months, you make it official — things are looking up. Or are they? Not every relationship is always going to be a smash hit. Some relationships will quickly get off to a bad start, and you won't even quite know i…
By Sara Altschule

Relationship Tests You & Your Partner Should Pass

Sure, in the movies and on TV, relationships can look perfect. However, as we all know, they can be far, far from that in reality. No matter what, the honeymoon stage will have to end at some point and the true relationship tests start to rear their …
By Sara Altschule

Questions To Ask Yourself When In A Relationship

It’s easy to get wrapped up in a romantic relationship. You’re often so into your partner that you sometimes forget to be into yourself. But it’s always helpful to take a step back and analyze your partnership, and there are some important questions …
By Sara Altschule

Signs You're Having A Quarter Life Crisis

There comes a time in every twenty-something's life when the world feels like one big mess that is too much to clean up. Say goodbye to the mid-life crisis where your dad buys a red convertible, and say hello to the quarter life crisis. On a surface …
By Sara Altschule

Signs You're Ready To Be Friends With Your Ex

After a horrible breakup the last thing you can think about is being friends with your ex. Your head might be going a million miles a second thinking of all the things you and your former partner could have done differently. Maybe you’re filled with …
By Sara Altschule

Emotions That Might Mean It's Time For A Breakup

It's only natural that when you're in a relationship, there are going to be many different emotions. These can range from feeling intense joy and happiness to feeling sad, confused, and unsure. There are many ups and downs, but how do you know when c…
By Sara Altschule

Times It's OK To Give Your Partner A Second Chance

The saying, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me” has always stood true in my mind, especially when it comes to relationships. When you’re dealing with love, it’s easy to let things slide and quickly forgive and forget. But how do …
By Sara Altschule

How To Stop An Argument From Getting Worse

Arguing in a relationship is inevitable, but how do you stop a fight from getting worse when you're already down that argument road? Listen — fighting is going to occur in relationships. It’s the unpleasant truth about being in a partnership, and mos…
By Sara Altschule

Signs You're Ready To Be In A Relationship

Being single is fairly easy in the sense that you only have to worry about yourself. Being in a relationship with another person, however, isn’t always a piece of cake, but it can be so worth it if both partners put in work. But how do you know when …
By Sara Altschule

7 Things That Can Impact Your Relationship

There are a lot of things that come into play during a relationship. When you argue with your partner, it’s usually because the two of you have completely different backgrounds and ways of living. Combining two lives into one isn’t necessarily a piec…
By Sara Altschule

How To Let Your Crush Know You're Into Them

Having a crush on someone who makes your heart flutter is fun. There’s nothing that can compare to that feeling when your crush walks into the room or when you two can’t stop talking to one another, but how do you let your crush know you're into them…
By Sara Altschule

Things Real Friends Don't Say To Each Other

When you have a best friend, life can be an easier journey. You’ve got someone on your side who has your back and knows every part about you. A solid friendship makes you a better person. Having a true best friend is like no other experience; it’s di…
By Sara Altschule

Things You Shouldn't Hide From Your Partner

Being in a loving and healthy relationship means being able to talk about everything. And I mean everything — the good, the bad and the not so pretty. There are going to be things that need to be discussed in a relationship at some point. One of the …
By Sara Altschule

Easy Ways You To Enhance Your Morning

Sure, everyone would love to wake up feeling as peppy as Elle Woods, but that's not always the case. Sometimes you wake up on the wrong side of the bed and nothing can make it right. Mornings are important because they are the foundation of your enti…
By Sara Altschule

Things You Shouldn't Put Up With In A Friendship

In a romantic relationship, you expect your partner to love you, support you, respect you, and be loyal to you, along with many other things. Most of us have high standards for the special people in our lives. And, we should. But why do we often not …
By Sara Altschule

7 Things Not To Do On Social Media After A Breakup

There are a lot of things you will want to do right after a breakup — scream at the top of your lungs, cry your eyes out, call your ex to get back together, or smile because this is exactly what you wanted. Whether it’s cutting your hair after a rela…
By Sara Altschule

How To Get Through A Rough Patch With Your Partner

A perfect relationship with no rough times or hard moments is just like a unicorn — as lovely as that sounds, it doesn’t exist. Every relationship has to have its lows to have its highs. Heck, even Beyoncé and Jay Z have rough patches. Nobody is perf…
By Sara Altschule