6 Best MMF Threesome Sex Positions, Because Two Men Are Better Than One

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Please send your sex and relationship inquiries to tips@bustle.com. Now, onto today's topic: the hottest sex positions for male-male-female threesomes

Q: Thanks for the article on the best sex positions for MFF threesomes. But I'm wondering — my boyfriend and I have been fantasizing about a threesome with another guy, but I’m not sure how the logistics will work! Can you share positions for MMF threesomes? He's not sure if he wants to have sex with the other guy, so we'd like some options for both having all the focus on me, without their touching much, and positions where he and the other guy would touch each other, if he decides that he wants that.

A: Happy to oblige! The gender makeup of your threesome of course affects the positions that are going to work best. Here are the six hottest positions for male-male-female threesomes.

1. The High Five

How To Do It: The woman kneels on her hands and legs and one guy penetrates her from behind in Doggystyle. The second guy kneels in front of the woman, facing her. She gives him a blowjob.

Why It’s Hot: The guys get to make eye contact while they’re attached to the same woman, which is pretty damn sexy. This is a great arrangement for guys who don’t want to have intercourse with their guest star.

2. The Doggy Blowjob

How To Do It: This is a slight variation of The High Five. One guy and one girl have sex doggystyle. The second guy lays on his back in front of the woman. She’ll have to lower down to her elbows to perform oral on him.

Why It’s Hot: This is also a really good position for guys who are nervous about having a MMF threesome, since the guys won’t be able to see each other nearly as well as in the standard High Five, and aren't touching much.

3. The Daisy Chain

How To Do It: All three people perform oral on each other. They all lay on the same side of their bodies, and contort so that they form a circle together.

Why It’s Hot: In this position, you’ll all get to share the same experience of giving and receiving. It’s great for people who enjoy oral more than intercourse. Or you can use it as a way to ease into a more intense threesome.

4. The Reverse High Five

How To Do It: In this variation of The High Five, the woman trades places with the man she was giving a blowjob to. She lies down on her back so she can receive oral sex. The two guys have anal sex Doggystyle, and the guy in the receiving end performs oral on the woman.

Why It’s Hot: This is a great configuration for men who want to have anal during the threesome. It’s also good for women who enjoy oral more than penetration.

5. The BJ Switch


How To Do It:
 Both men stand in front of the woman. She gets on her knees and switches off performing oral on each man. While she’s working on one guy, she can use her hand on the other.

Why It’s Hot: This is a fun arrangement for women who love giving oral. She can really put on a show or roleplay being a sex slave.

6. The Double Stuff

How To Do It: If you really want to go whole-hog with your MMF threesome, you can aim for double penetration. One guy lays on his back, at the edge of the bed (his legs should be draping over the edge). The woman gets on top and rides him Cowgirl style. The second guy stands on the ground, and approaches the woman from behind. Depending on the height of the bed, he can stand, crouch, or kneel. He can enter her anally.

Why It’s Hot: A lot of women and men fantasize about double penetration, so this position can be insanely hot. There’s nothing quite like having two different guys inside of you at the same time. 

Have fun!

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