Finding your sexual soulmate may not make for an ideal long-term situation in all cases, but it's definitely an experience everyone should have at least once. So what does it mean to have a sexual soulmate?
"Your sexual soulmate is more concerned about your orgasm than theirs," Clarissa Silva, Behavioral Scientist and author of relationship blog You're Just A Dumbass tells Bustle. "Your partner wants to absorb and learn all things that pleases you every time you have sex. As the relationship evolves, you both become more in tune with each other, making it is easier to be more intuitive about each other’s needs. The beauty is that you won’t have to negotiate what you might need, your partner will just act on it." Doesn't that sound amazing?
But finding your sexual soulmate isn't easy. Personally, I think it might even be more difficult than finding your romantic soulmate, if that's a concept in which you believe. With sexual desires, wants, needs, and fetishes running the gamut, to find someone right there on the exact same page as you is quite a feat.
So, if you're ready to drop everything you're doing right now and go out there and find your sexual soulmate, you can start by looking to astrology and the zodiac signs you're most compatible with in bed. Here are your sexual soulmates, based on your sign, because opposites really can attract.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Your sexual soulmates: Aries and Taurus
Why? Well, we already know why Aries and Taurus make for sexual soulmates, but Taurus and Taurus are also sexual soulmates. Not only do they perfectly understand what the other needs to truly feel satisfied without having to say a single word, but when two Taurus come together for the first time, it's not like anything either one of them have ever experienced in their life.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Your sexual soulmate: Leo
Why? For the most part, finding the right fit for Gemini is trying, because they can be immature when it comes to sex. That being said, when Gemini and Leo come together it's an exciting combination of creativity and energy.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
Your sexual soulmate: Capricorn
Why? It's in being so opposite from each other that Capricorn and Cancer aren't just sexual soulmates, but great lovers, too. Their desire for each other runs deep and they can never quite get enough of what the other has to offer sexually.
Leo (July 23 - Aug. 22)
Your sexual soulmate: Aquarius
Why? Considered the "most passionate and explosive couples," sex between Leo and Aquarius is out of this world. While they're not exactly great relationship material, when it comes to sex things fall into place perfectly, in that they look at sex in the same way, which keeps them on the same page. A definite must for sexual soulmates.
Virgo (Aug. 23 - Sept. 22)
Your sexual soulmate: Scorpio
Why? Virgo tends to keep their sexuality on the DL compared to Scorpio who just puts it all out there — this is why these two are sexual soulmates. The complete oppositeness of these two signs make for a tumultuous sexual union and one that can definitely get a little kinky.
Libra (Sept. 23 - Oct. 22)
Your sexual soulmate: Libra and Scorpio
Why? A fellow Libra is a great sexual soulmate because they'll be on hte same page when it comes to sex positions.
As for Scorpio, the opposite planets that rule Libra and Scorpio make them sexual soulmates because it brings out the inner animal in each of them. Sexually, they're made for each other, especially since Scorpio can dirty things up for Libra in a way that another Libra can't, making them soulmates but in a completely different way that Libra and Libra are soulmates.
Scorpio (Oct. 23 - Nov. 21)
Your sexual soulmate: Virgo, Libra, and Scorpio
Why? While we've already covered why Virgo and Scorpio, and Libra and Scorpio are sexual soulmates, let's focus on how Scorpio and Scorpio are sexual soulmates. (Look at you, Scorpio! So many matches, so little time!)
When it comes to sexual soulmate probability between a Scorpio and a Scorpio, it's hit or miss. While two Scorpios can come together and experience mindblowing sex that neither will forget, there's also the chance that it could be the complete opposite. So, yes, two Scorpios can be sexual soulmates, but it depends on who those Scorpios are.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22 - Dec. 21)
Your sexual soulmate: Aquarius
Why? Sagittarius and Aquarius are sexual soulmates, because they're both open to experimenting and exploring — something not all signs are willing to do. They're also able to communicate about sex in a way that's clearer than most and their sexual connection is so deep that they can enjoy all realms of sex, even if intercourse isn't on the menu.
Capricorn (Dec. 22 - Jan. 19)
Your sexual soulmate: Cancer
Why? Just as Capricorn is Cancer's soulmate, it goes in the other direction, too. The passion that these two awaken in each other is almost other worldly and the possibilities that could come out of such a sexual union are endless.
Aquarius (Jan. 20 - Feb. 18)
Your sexual soulmate: Sagittarius and Aquarius
Why? Not only is Sagittarius sexual soulmates with Aquarius (see above), but Aquarius and Aquarius are the sexual soulmates that make everyone else in the zodiac look like a bunch of prudes. When together, these two are all about experimenting, fulfilling fantasies, and indulging in the sexual stuff that might make some people wince and cringe. But it's all good for Aquarius and Aquarius; they're on the same page, having a good time, and that's all that matters.
Pisces (Feb. 19 - March 20)
Your sexual soulmate: Capricorn
Why? Similar to Gemini, Pisces, you're a difficult one to please, making finding you a sexual soulmate a bit trying. The closest that Pisces is going to come to a sexual soulmate is Capricorn, which is interesting because it doesn't necessarily go the other way around this time. It's the vast differences between these two signs that give them the chance at sexual bliss, but ultimately, this union is more about love making (yeah, I'm not crazy about that term either) than anything else.
Now that you know who your sexual soulmate is, all you have to do is get out there and start asking people their zodiac signs. I mean, what else were you going to do tonight? Stay in and watch TV? Actually, you probably were. So... new plan! Go out there tomorrow instead. Good luck!