As its been said hundreds of times before, the heart wants it wants. The problem is, the heart doesn’t always want the person who’s going to give you the relationship you deserve. Unfortunately, you can’t really choose who you happen to fall in love with, and you can't really turn your feelings off whenever you want. As a result, it's so easy to find yourself in a situation where you've fallen in love with the wrong person.
More often than not, these situations never really end well. If you think you're in love with the wrong person for you, relationship experts and authors, Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola, tell Bustle, you're in great company. "Almost all of us have been there, too," they say.
If we all fell in love with the right person immediately none of us would have to deal with the pain of going through a breakup. You wouldn't have to worry about whether or not your partner would cheat or why they seem to be checking out. You certainly wouldn't have to look for the various signs that they're "The One," because you'd just know. Instead, you’d be spending time looking up signs you’re in love, just so you can validate all the wonderful, yet overwhelming, feelings you have for your partner.
Sometimes knowing you're in love with the wrong person will be obvious and sometimes it won't be. With that said, here are signs you’re not right for each other, according to experts.