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An Astrologer Shares The Zodiac Sign You Should Avoid Dating

The cosmic chemistry is between some signs is totally off.

An astrologer shares the zodiac sign you should avoid dating.
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Dating is complicated, but looking at our astrological love compatibility with someone can sometimes help make sense of things. Because while scanning for red flags as we get to know someone is a must, knowing the most incompatible zodiac signs in love can be an easy trick for gleaning some cosmic insight into a potential connection, too. If you could avoid wasting your time on someone who might be astrologically fated to press your buttons, grind your gears, and drive you up the wall, wouldn’t you want a heads up?

But before you send a break-up text to that Scorpio or eliminate an entire group of zodiac signs from your dating pool, remember that dating someone with an incompatible zodiac sign doesn't doom a relationship. The astrological compatibility between two people involves much more than just sun signs. We've got to look at the connections between two birth charts on the whole (a practice known as synastry) to get a clear cosmic picture of a relationship. Romance planet Venus, sex planet Mars, and the emotional moon all play major roles in our love lives, but looking at basic zodiac sign compatibility is a helpful place to start.

And ultimately, just because certain zodiac signs are incompatible on paper doesn't mean things won’t work out between them. It’s possible to find chemistry, compatibility, and common ground with people of all zodiac signs — it might just take some compromise or involve a little more struggle. That said, read on to learn which zodiac signs you're romantically incompatible with.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign for dating is Cancer.

Why? You're bold and impulsive by nature, Aries — but Cancers are more reserved and protective of their space, so you might struggle to adjust to their need for peace and quiet or be too impatient to deal. A Cancer’s desire for security could feel more boring than romantic for a thrill-seeker like yourself, and their emotional sensitivity could get on your nerves. If you do want a relationship with a Cancer, you’ll need to find a balance between your spontaneous streak and their comfort zone.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign for dating is Leo.

Why? You like to take things slow and enjoy life’s simple pleasures, Taurus — and that's why the fiery and attention-grabbing energy of a Leo could prove to be too much for your laid-back lifestyle. Leos love being in the limelight and have a bit of a dramatic streak, all of which poses a challenge to your more reserved and down-to-earth vibe. You’ll both have to be willing to compromise more than most in order to make a relationship work.

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Your least compatible zodiac sign for dating is Pisces.

Why? Communication is important to you Gemini, which is why dating a dreamy Pisces could be more frustrating than fulfilling. Pisces lean heavily on their intuitive senses, which doesn’t always jive with your much more logical way of thinking. As an intellectual air sign, putting feelings before facts (as Pisces tend to do) just isn’t your style and could lead to disagreements and resentments. While a romance between you two isn’t impossible, the communication differences could get in the way of the relationship if you’re not careful.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Aries.

Why? As a Cancer, you appreciate being in touch with your feelings and creating safe and quiet spaces for where you can connect with others — and that’s why Aries’ bold and blunt way of communicating can cause friction in a relationship. Their feisty and impatient attitudes don’t always jive with your naturally sensitive and gentle energy. You might feel like it’s a struggle to keep up with their spontaneous lifestyles, which could lead to you trying to parent them. Be ready to enforce your emotional boundaries if you want to be with an Aries.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Leo (July 23 - Aug. 22)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Taurus.

Why? As a Leo, the devotion of a loyal Taurus is definitely desirable, since you love to be the center of attention — but you might ultimately find yourself feeling held back by the stubbornness of the zodiac’s bull. As fixed zodiac signs, you both have strong wills and a deep desire to get your way, so it might be harder to come to an agreeable compromise on things. Taurus prefers to take things slow and steady, while you like living life in the fast lane, so it can be difficult to find common ground when it comes to lifestyles or how to spend free time.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Virgo (Aug. 23 - Sept. 22)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Sagittarius.

Why? As a Virgo, your desire for orderliness and rationality might leave you frustrated by the spontaneous and whimsical energy of fiery Sagittarius. Sagittarius loves to make decisions on a whim, and their happy-go-lucky nature makes them prone to taking risks. This free-spiritedness might often seem more like recklessness to you, Virgo. The stress of having to keep up with their split-second decisions and constant hunger for excitement could put a strain on a relationship, given that you prefer to make a thorough plan before taking action.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Libra (Sept. 23 - Oct. 22)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Capricorn.

Why? As a Libra, you’re social, diplomatic, and always seeking balance — so dating an ultra-pragmatic Capricorn could be a frustrating experience for you. Relationships are a huge deal to you (Libra is the sign of partnerships, after all), so it can be hard to reckon with the fact that Capricorns often put their careers before everything else. A Capricorn’s no-nonsense attitude about life could sometimes come off as a constant harsh reality check to a Libra, so unless you can hang with some constructive criticism, it may not work out.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Scorpio (Oct. 23 - Nov. 21)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Aquarius.

Why? As a Scorpio, you need lots of privacy and unshakable loyalty in a relationship — so you'd probably struggle to vibe with the ultra-social and avant-garde ways of an Aquarius. These air signs often come off as aloof or emotionally detached, which is a huge issue for a deeply sensitive and feelings-oriented water sign like yourself. Aquarius likes to look at things from a broad and collective-focused perspective, while you like to get deep into the heart of things, so you might have a tough time finding common ground in a relationship.

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Virgo.

Why? As a Sagittarius, you have a virtually unquenchable thirst for adventure and excitement — which is why you might view a Virgos desire to plan things out as a huge drag on your fun. Virgos are observant, analytical, and ultra focused on the little details of things, which doesn’t always jive with your free-spirited and happy-go-lucky spontaneity. If you’re willing to reel in your wild side and be a little more pragmatic about things sometimes, you might be able to make it work with a Virgo.

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Libra.

Why? As a hardworking earth sign, you’re driven by your goal-oriented nature and are determined once you fix your focus on something. That’s why a relationship with a romantic and socially-oriented Libra could make you feel distracted from your bottom line. Libras need for constant social interaction might not jive with your more structured and introverted lifestyle, and you might find their indecisiveness more annoying than adorable. If you want to make it work with a Libra, you’ll both have to set strong boundaries around your needs.

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Your least compatible zodiac sign in dating is Aquarius.

Why? As the sign that rules friendship and community, you highly value working with a group and being connected with a lot of people, Aquarius — which is one of the reasons why being with a private and emotionally-sensitive Scorpio could prove to be challenging. You might always feel like they’re reading between the lines and trying to get under the surface of things, which could test your patience and make you feel held back. If you want to make it work with a Scorpio, you’ll need to embrace your feelings more and they’ll need to grant you your freedom.

If Your Zodiac Sign Is Pisces (Feb. 19 - March 20)

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Your least compatible zodiac sign for dating is Gemini.

Why? As a sign that's highly sensitive, Pisces, you might find that Gemini’s logical and fact-oriented approach is a little too rigid for your taste. Geminis require a lot of communication, so you might struggle trying to constantly explain your ethereal feelings and intuitive thoughts to them — which could be a frustrating and fruitless experience, given that some things can’t be put into words. Your dreamy energy prefers to simply feel things instead of quantify them, so you’d need to work extra hard to bridge this gap with a Gemini.