With the end of January, comes February, the shortest month of the year, Because February isn't just the shortest month of the year and sort of a hopeful reminder that spring isn't too far away, we might as well celebrate it... with new sex positions to try. Because why the hell not? And it's still pretty cold AF in February, and there really is no better or more fun to stay stay warm then to have sex.
But instead of sticking to your usual, go-to sex positions, as wonderful as they may be, it's time to break out of your regular routine and explore a bit while you have all that time indoors before spring starts.
Below, you'll find 28 sex positions for every day of February, from X Marks The Spot to Side 69 to the Lotus sex position. There are positions that are perfect for quickies, and some that are better for slow, lazy sex. There's also enough variation here to keep you and your partner happy all month long, with some oldies, but goodies, and some that you may not have even heard before... meaning it's time you should and give them a try. And what better time than now? Here are 28 sex positions to try this month.
How to do it: While on your hands and knees, have your partner, while on their knees, penetrate you from behind. Why you should do it: Well, it's February 1, so let's start off with a ~bang~, shall we? Also, doggy gets high ratings across the globe, so it's a good place to start for that reason, too. How to do it: While on your back on a flat surface, lift your legs straight up and cross them at your knees. Next, from a standing position, have you partner penetrate you. Why you should do it: This position is great for a deeper sensation, making it ideal for male partners with smaller penises, but also a fantastic position all around for everyone, regardless of size. How to do it: With your partner laying on their back, straddle their face so they can orally stimulate you. Why you should do it: A better question might be, why shouldn't you do it? If you and your partner are big fans of oral, then this one should be very close to the top of your to-do list — hence the reason I put it at the third day of the month. How to do it: After finding a sturdy chair, have your partner sit down on it, while you straddle them, lowering yourself onto them. Although this image is of the two people facing each other, you can choose to face away. Whatever work best for both of you. Why you should do it: Because chair sex is fun sex. It's a mini-adventure and sex lives all need some mini-adventures sometimes. How to do it: While in traditional doggy, add a vibrator to the position so you can stimulate your clitoris. Why you should do it: Since doggy style position remains a favorite among most people, and most women need clitoral stimulation to climax, it just makes sense that this position should be given a try. How to do it: While on your back with your partner facing you and on their knees, have them lift your hips so they can penetrate you. From here, you can stimulate your clitoris manually or grind against each other to get that stimulation. Why you should do it: This position is fantastic for the female orgasm, so that's your selling point right there. How to do it: With your partner in a seated position, straddle them, lowering yourself onto them. Why you should do it: This position isn't just intimate, but because you're on top you have more control, meaning you can make yourself climax when you're ready. How to do it: With your partner on their knees and you on all fours, give your partner oral. Why you should do it: If you've been thinking about experimenting with dom/sub positions, this one is good place to start. How to do it: While on your back, with your butt pulled to the edge of the bed, have your partner lift your hips and penetrate you, while continuing to hold your hips up. Why you should do it: Not only does it feel good and your partner has a lot of leverage, but if you do it long enough, maybe you can explain to me why it's called the butterfly. How to do it: With your partner laying flat on their back, straddle them while facing in the opposite direction. Why you should do it: The two big reasons for doing this one are that the angle at which you're being penetrated is in a position that's great for G-spot stimulation and your partner gets to check out your butt, as an extra incentive for them. How to do it: While in the cuddling spoon position, proceed to have sex. Why you should do it: It isn't just easy, but cozy and perfect for lazy days. And we all know February has a lot of lazy days that need coziness. How to do it: With your partner flat on their back, straddle them, then "ride" them — hence the name. Why you should do it: The cowgirl position is pretty much the position when it comes to having a clitoral orgasm — and maybe even a vaginal one at the same time, too! Also, since you just spent yesterday doing a lazy position, you might as well put some effort in today. How to do it: Start in doggy style, then lower yourselves down. Why you should do it: It feels just as good as doggy, but with less pressure on your arms and wrists, making it even more enjoyable. How to do it: With your partner sitting cross-legged, lower yourself into their lap, wrapping your arms and legs around them tightly. Then begin to sort of rock back and forth, while grinding against each other. It requires a lot of hip movement. Why you should do it: It's basically a hug — the perfect Valentine's Day position! How to do it: With your partner laying down, with one leg bent, straddle the bent leg, while lowering yourself onto them. Next, you want to, well, pretty much hump their thigh while being penetrated. Why you should do it: While the word "humping" may conjure up images of high school dry-humping, in this case we're talking about some serious clitoral stimulation. How to do it: While standing and facing in the same direction, have your partner penetrate you from behind. You definitely want a wall for support. Why you should do it: Because quickies are great for you and this is the ideal quickie position. How to do it: With your partner on their side and facing you, lay yourself on your back perpendicular to them, then drape your legs over their hips. From here, they'll penetrate you. Why you should do it: If you have some spare time to lounge and not rush through intercourse, then why not? How to do it: While draped over the back of the sofa, have your partner penetrate you. It's like doggy style but more comfortable for both of you. Why you should do it: You might as well use the sofa for something other than movie marathons for a change, right? How to do it: With you on your back and your partner on your knees, have them lift your hips and rest them on their thighs. Next, have them penetrate you from here, while you put your legs up and they continue to hold your hips. Why you should do it: It's a really great angle when it comes to penetration and you can modify it by rolling your hips back and put your legs a bit more behind your head adding to deeper penetration. How to do it: Basically, you want to get into traditional missionary for this, but with a pillow under your hips so your pubic bones can really rub against each other during penetration. Why you should do it: Missionary may get a bad rap because it's fairly simple but it still remains one of the most intimate positions and if you spice it up, missionary can feel great.
Standing With Rear Entry
How to do it: While standing and bent over at the hip, have your partner, who's also standing, penetrate you from behind. Why you should do it: Again, we have another quickie position — or simply a vertical position for those who are tired of being horizontal. How to do it: While in each other's sight, proceed to masturbate while your partner does the same. Why you should do it: You may not be touching, but mutual masturbation is a bonding moment, as well as a lesson in what gets your partner off. How to do it: With both you and your partner starting in the crab position, move toward each other, then lift your hips and lower yourself onto them. Yes, this is going to take lots of finagling. Why you should do it: Great sex means being able to laugh. The crab walk is a position that, in addition to feeling good, is likely to make you laugh. How to do it: Instead of the traditional 69 position, roll onto your sides and perform oral that way. Why you should do it: If you love regular 69, you'll love this one even more because it's far more comfortable for both of you.
Bouncing Reverse Cowgirl
How to do it: With your partner laying flat on their back, while facing away, straddle them, then starting bouncing — yes, bouncing up and down. (But please be careful and listen to your partner! You don't want any unnecessary sex injuries.) Why you should do it: If you like risk with your sex, then that's a reason to try this one. Also, if you're in the mood to take charge of your sexual pleasure, it's also a position to which to turn for that reason, too. How to do it: Have your partner sit in a chair, then drop to your knees and give them some really hot oral sex action. Then switch. Why you should do it: Oral sex is a really intimate, so if you're looking to bring some intimacy back to your sex life, this is a perfect choice for that. How to do it: With your partner seated in the L-position, with their legs extended out, lower yourself onto them, then bend backward. Holding each other's forearms will increase depth penetration. Why you should do it: Since we're at day 27, you might need a good stretch after everything you've been doing, and this position definitely gives your back and legs quite a stretch. How to do it: With your partner laying flat, straddle their face so they can perform oral sex. What makes this different weak in the knees, is that we're putting a dominating twist on this one, so you're in charge, while your partner is the submissive one. Why you should do it: Well, you entered February with a bang, so you might as well go out with a bang, too.
Even if you look at some of these positions and recoil, fearful that maybe you can't pull them off, still give them a try.
Sex is all about exploring and experimenting — and laughing. Once you learn not to take it too seriously, you can have an amazing time... 28 days in a row.